• How to disassociate sex from your ex?

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    Title says it all really! I enjoyed an explorative, active and varied sex life with the ex, so now I find just about anything vaguely sexual to be a painful reminder of her.

    All the advice tells me I need to forget about what she meant to me, so any tips on how to do that would be much appreciated. We both grew an incredible amount over the years, so it feels like she will always be a part of my sexuality.

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Just having so time for yourself its hard Noon . How about buying yourself a new toy that you didnt use with her ?

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks KF, that sounds like a really good plan :)

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    You know what you like , so new you new toy happy cumming : P x

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    We used to look at erotic art together and even an occasional tasteful porn movie, so even that reminds me of "the good times"! I need to redefine my good times :)

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    Yep i'd agree with that. I've shared so many firsts sexually experimenting with my partner i can't imagine doing them with anyone else.

    New toys sounds like a good place to start :)

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    Cheeky Chica [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with KF and Lou22, new toys are a start and some new interests, that should help. x

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks both :) x

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    eugeneishot [sign in to see picture]
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    Find a partner and do things you never did with your ex, try new things, kinky stuff, sex toys, etc. Modify and improve your sexual experience.

    Take care

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Eugene, trouble is my last relationship was far from vanilla! Still, onwards and upwards and see what happens I guess.

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    lilac_vix [sign in to see picture]
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    It will come with time. Time to heal and time spent rebuilding yourself.

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Vix xx

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