• How do I suppress my sex drive?

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    Jenna Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    I have had a high sex drive since I can remember and now it's getting quite annoying...I'm in a long distance relationship with my partner, and it's going quite well, but everytime I talk to him online I start to...well start to.

    It's getting on my nerves I try to relieve myself when I need to (sometimes with the fantastic products at Love Honey) but that doesn't stop me for long.

    Any advice on how to help please let me know......No chastity belts! They freak me out.

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Im in the same place and discovered Im a hypersexual.

    I dont think you can supress your libido. To be fair I asked the same kinda question about a year ago or so but I cant find the thread. Ill keep looking ok :)

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    d.liciuos [sign in to see picture]
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    Why would you want to supress your libido? enjoy it on your own if your fella isn't about. i know its not the same but .....

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    Toy Lover [sign in to see picture]
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    Don't suppress it, embrace it enjoy it. Orgasm, one of the best things in life and free.

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    mrs average [sign in to see picture]
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    May be you could try to restrict the times you play with your toys when he's not around, and you've just spoken to him or emailed him. You could have a distinction between affectionate conversation emails, and horny emails. keep the regular ones regular and the special ones special?

    Just a suggestion.

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    Jenna Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    Well I decided to try to just stop, not cybering or relieving myself unless he wanted to. I thought this would give me a chance and rest and try to learn to keep my mind off of sex...Long story short he was horny as hell that day, the universe does love irony.

    I am still determined to try to stop myself form carrying on the way I normally do but bad habits (even the ones that feel this good) are hard to stop.

    I have read up on some ways to control yourself such as meditation and am willing to try anything to suppress my sex drive as my boyfriend isn't as driven as me and I feel that it will strain our relationship in the long run...

    Any ideas or experience with the same issue please let me know, I'm new to all this.

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    Naked_butler [sign in to see picture]
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    Just wank

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    Jenna Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    monstergeeza wrote:

    Naked_butler wrote:

    Just wank

    this

    It's not like I haven't heard this before and I'm just going to say that its very dumb to say that. Its not I don't I mean we all do but if I did everytime I felt like it the number would be pushing double digits each day, I just don't have the time too.

    Please stop saying this and read my posts fully before suggesting advice.

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    Ron Burgundy [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't think supressing your libido is the way to go, maybe replace the need to masturbate with something constructive.

    I run a lot and maybe this sounds a little simplistic but by investing your time in something that requires you to expend a lot of energy might reduce your need to "have a wank" as the guys were saying. Turn a negative into a positive (Jesus, i sound like some self help nut)

    I guess what im saying is we all get wound up, you just need to find another outlet to relieve the tension.

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    KebertXela [sign in to see picture]
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    I was going to suggest self control too

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    Jimi Duro [sign in to see picture]
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    I could do with boosting mine at the moment

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    pedal pusher [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm in my 60s and consider myself to be oversexed.....maybe even a sex addict! Since I retired I've got more time on my hands and am finding myself wanking far more and looking at porn. I don't think there's anything wrong in either activity and in a way I'm relieved that I do have a strong libido, but I don't want my life to be dominated by this. Any suggestions/comments?

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    Aphrodite2011 [sign in to see picture]
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    WAs that a serious comment Pedal pusher?

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    Was

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    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    I know of quite a few men in thier 50's/60's who enjoy an active sex life. If it effecting you in the same way as the original poster then I would suggest reading through this thread and the previous adivce given. I cant give much advice but I do know it can be an addiction that isnt fun for the person involved.

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    pedal pusher [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you for your helpful response Fluffbags. I'll follow your advice and re-read the thread.

    Aphrodite2011, I was slightly taken aback by your reponse and wonder why you doubt that my comment is a serious one?

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