• Prostate Massage

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    Bit embarassing but what exactly is this? I know where your prostate it is but didnt realize it was something that could be used for pleasure? I thought it was the leading cause of cancer in men and the reason we don't want to turn 50,

    i apologise for my naiveity...

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    scotman [sign in to see picture]
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    Don't need to apologise a prostate massage can prevent prostate cancer, because it releases seman through stimulation of the the prostate.
    This stimulation is very enjoyable and can increase your enjoyment through multiple orgasms. Hope this helps just experiment and enjoy.

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    I had a look at the LH guide but it was all a bit overwhelming and left me with more questions than answers

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Im no expert on how to 'massage' it although I have found mine.

    Its absolutely NOTHING to be embarressed about :)

    A "proGasm" can be really intense in a good way and you'll want to have one every time once you've had one.

    The prostate can be stimulated either by putting pressure on the perinium or the best bet is to use a massager like the aneros inside your bum.

    Kinda like a womans g-spot a guys p-spot is located in roughly the same area if you were on your back.

    It feels like a mini donut/polo on the tip of your finger and if you apply a certain ammount of pressure to it you should have a really different yet amazing orgaasm.

    Another technique is known as 'Milking'

    Heres a recent one -

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/366618-prostate-milking/

    anyway thats about as far as I can advise you and I hope I have it all right, there is a thread on here back from way way back that is VERY informative about this, Ill try to find it for you...

    All in all, Just relax, use TONS of lube and Enjoy :)

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks seduced... at least i've learnt there not just for middle age men...

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    Here we go -

    Unfortunately I think the thread has been removed or lost, Anyway, Lubyanka bless her did a whole 'How-To' a few years back on her blog.

    And I've found it -

    http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/prostate-milking/

    I suggest you make a cup of tea or whatever and sit back and relax - Its a long but excellent read :)

    Its very very informative & it certainly helped me in my quest. ;)

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Little Strummer Boy wrote:

    Thanks seduced... at least i've learnt there not just for middle age men...

    No worries and absolutely not!

    Too many men are still really hung up over it, Which is silly really and unfortunately you will find this on here too. But dont let it put you off in the slightest ;)

    You may also like this thread of mine -

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/321957-pegging-male-pride-confidence-boosting/

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm slightly hung up on it lol... im not really sure what it was. Its something i may try but probably after a few beers.

    The recomendation isto start with a finger and a lot of lube, do know if one uses any lubricant or perhaps try a specialist anal one?

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Anal lube is obviously going to be better, My favourite go-to lube is available here -

    Look for Maximus or Sassy. Both are brilliant for this and are long lasting.

    All I can say is really relax, Dont get too drunk or you wont feel any pain, which is actually very important that you do, If you do any damage and cant feel yourself doing it, Well say no more!

    So RELAX, Use lots of lube, Then more again, Then top up some more lol! If it hurts, STOP, Take a breather then start again when the pain goes away.

    That blog covers it all anyway so have a good read.

    Most importantly, Enjoy yourself lol :)

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks seduced. i feel like ive learned a lot! hopefully a few morepeople will pitch in and the next time a dotd takes my fancy i'll add some of your suggested purchases.

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    do you need to clean yourself first? That seems like the hardest and most complex part

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    Little Strummer Boy -

    Many people who enjoy experimenting with anal play will clean themselves beforehand using a douche.

    You can see our full range of douches here - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/douches-enemas/

    You may also find this blog handy, which runs through 5 simple steps to get the most from anal play - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2007/04/30/five-easy-steps-to-first-time-anal-sex/

    Have fun! :)

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    My bad and thanks Jess, The ONE important thing I missed out and most probably the MOST important lol! :)

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    Lol just my luck... I bought a few, well two things but couldn't decide if i needed one. The other posts seemed to suggest that it was up to you. I dont want the experience to be spoilt by being unclean but thought i'd wait for someone who's more experienced opinion...

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    Well I think everything i need to experiment has arrived... its now staring at me in two boxes from the other side of the room...

    Does anybody else ever buy things and then have to work up to using them?

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    Does anybody else ever buy things and then have to work up to using them?

    Yep

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Definately ;)

    You'll be fine :)

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    well i was not expecting that : )

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    Little Strummer Boy wrote:

    well i was not expecting that : )

    I take it you enjoyed???

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    I'll admit i wasn't sure what techniques to use and cleaning myself with a douche was a bit tricky (that makes me sound a bit senile and incontinent) but after i relaxed it was a sensation that ive never felt/ /me knees still feel weak...

    well i feel i've gotten over a big hang up

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