• Well, now what?

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    KebertXela [sign in to see picture]
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    Massage went very well, thanks HGL.

    Other half got a nice relaxing massage, except when she kept giggling, then she got a whipping :)

    Didnt lead to anything, but it was great to just do something together for an hour.

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    Well, I finally got someting out of the other half beyond a half strangled climax moan :).

    The magic wand on max "Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee"

    Still getting her to use actual words is a struggle, I'm thinking I could buy her some "romance" novels and she could leave books marks in pages she likes?

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    Sorry that wasnt very clear.

    The most involved I've ever gotten her in a *discussion* about sex is (with the exception of a dream) a half strangled moan, and "weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee".

    Personaly I find the really loud porn star moaning off putting......

    Shes not really willing to discuss "rudies" as she terms it, so, I thought maybe a book might help.

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    Thats not really an issue for me though.

    I'm miles away from that stage, not entirely sure I wanna reach it anyway :P

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    turning women on is all about what you put in her head. She has the FEEL sexy.

    Massage is great, but it has to be sensual, not relaxing so she falls asleep. one fantastic way of increasing desire is to ban sex. Get naked and massage each other, but no touching genitals, no matter how much either of you want to, don't do it. If you need to masturbate, then do so, but no pressure on each other, otherwise you have wasted your time.

    Next time, do the same, but you can touch genitals, no intercourse though. It's all about the touch and how to turn each other on.

    Maintaining a good sex life takes effort and it isn't all about sex, that is why sex toys by themesleves will do nothing to help.

    Many men are too direct in their approaches, women often prefer something more subtle. Helping with the chores and being considerate can make a big difference

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