• Who buys the toys in your relationship

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    angeldelight [sign in to see picture]
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    I do

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    mibbles [sign in to see picture]
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    i do

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    Jimi Duro [sign in to see picture]
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    me seen as though I am single !

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    Lou22 [sign in to see picture]
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    Usually me even when its toys for him but we like looking for toys together and i always love anything he does get me.

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    rach74 [sign in to see picture]
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    usually me

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    jojomojo [sign in to see picture]
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    We look and choose 99% together we normally buy a secret gift for each other at Christmas but normally we look and choose together but then I buy. I'm normally the one that orders things or if we need to ring and ask a question that's me.

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    Goo [sign in to see picture]
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    I do

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    Hampshire Hogg [sign in to see picture]
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    We both do, but at the moment me more than her.

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    protectyournuts [sign in to see picture]
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    It used to be a joint thing, but now I usually have a look at what is around and judge it against what has worked for us before.

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    I am hoping the next guy is 50/50 me buying for him him buying for me and them buying together

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    TTurtle [sign in to see picture]
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    KinkyFuckery wrote:

    I am hoping the next guy is 50/50 me buying for him him buying for me and them buying together

    Best way to do it that, you both get to pick a few things that you both may enjoy :)

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    Misbhavn [sign in to see picture]
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    I buy them as I'm pretty easily put off something by the texture or colour (mild OCD about something's)

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    Exotica [sign in to see picture]
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    I tend to be the one to buy them and surprise him, but I would love him to surprise me with something. Would massively turn me on.

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    MissSteele [sign in to see picture]
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    I've always bought my own toys...my ex's havent really been into them much, apart from the odd occasion (sadly)

    I would much rather be presented with a glass dildo on valentines day than a bunch of roses, not that i actually do anything on v.day but still....nice thought!

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    Shy_Guy [sign in to see picture]
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    I've bought them all, some have been surprises, but others have been chosen when we have browsed the site together and liked the look of something.

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Miss Steele - With you there roses die within a week and glass is not just for V day its for a life time lol

    Tturtle - yeah both get to enjoy them together for sure and also can make it quiet fun too, just a random day something turning up to play with .

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    flash1 [sign in to see picture]
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    i generally do, occasionally oh says what she loike then i get them :)

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    I buy or get given the toys. I converse with my OH when it is something for him/us. I would like it if he got a surprise gift but only if he used my wishlists as I have tried a lot of toys.

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    bumble [sign in to see picture]
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    Usually me.

    If it's something for both of us i make a shortlist and then we choose together from that.

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    MSJ6952 [sign in to see picture]
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    Both of us

    Depends really what the toy is / who it is for on who actually orders it

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