• Alternative to being called a plaything

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    twinkle154 [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't like being called a plaything. Does anyone have an alternative?

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    mrs average [sign in to see picture]
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    This kind of depends on who calls you this, in what context, and what your relationship to them is. If it's a serious relationship, friendship, profesional or friend with benefits?

    If the alternative is someone you have sex with occasionally... I'd say plaything sounds better.

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    We play together often BDSM. I'm sub but see the word plaything as something that gets used and don't see myself like that. I see it as mutual enjoyment and fulfilment as one doesn't happen without the other.

    We do have a sort of relationship although we do see other people and a fondness for each other.

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    Sexy friend,

    bosom buddy,

    date mate??

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    In context it was when we were discussing how I felt while we played. He asked if I felt like a 'plaything' which I think is more like an object and one sided. I was wanting a word that made it more equal and still a person. Mutual satisfaction rather than one using the other.

    I know that some subs like the plaything idea.

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    How about play-mates? Keeps the play without the objectifying -thing.

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    Sex kitten is what I like to call the missus.

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    WildThing [sign in to see picture]
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    Play-mate would be a good one - as that suggests that he is "your" play-mate too..... and that you play together!

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