• Please help! Vibrator or Dildo?

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    Mr.Smith [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Ladies please help I want to buy a sex toy for my wife for Christmas but don't know what is best for pleasuring yourself a vibe or dildo any suggestions and models would be appreciated thanks

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    Lovehoney - Nicole [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Mr.Smith,

    You may find the Top Ten Christmas Gifts For Her guide useful.

    Happy shopping!

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    flash1 [sign in to see picture]
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    If its any help, my Oh does like to use a rabbit, on herself sometimes, as she loves the vibrations, but personnaly think it will be down to the individual of what they like best

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    Tracey3x [sign in to see picture]
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    I personal love vibrations. They do have vibrating dildos which is kinda best of both so would suggest trying one of those if those are the choices you want

    :)

    xxx

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    amydb69 [sign in to see picture]
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    yeah i was just about to say the same probably a vibrator i personally prefer a vibrator x

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    LatersBaby [sign in to see picture]
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    I would say vibrator too, the vibration makes a difference & would definately recommend the rabbit x

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    flash1 [sign in to see picture]
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    Also, a rabbit is great for foreplay, and can be used with one hand on OH leaves other hand free for other fun :)

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    LoverBunny [sign in to see picture]
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    I personally prefer vibrators/rabbits to dildos.

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    rose hip [sign in to see picture]
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    How about a bullet vibe and a a dildo? My favourite combination of those have both been discontinued :-( so I'm not sure what to suggest specifically.

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    c00kie [sign in to see picture]
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    How about a vibrating dildo? lol you get 2 for the price of one. Or a rabbit :)

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    Nymeria [sign in to see picture]
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    There's more realistic (dildo type) vibrators to choose from than just dildos alone (also cheaper) so I'd suggesting looking at those. It depends on your wife's preference.. a realistic one may be a little daunting as a first time toy though.

    If you have the funds I'd suggest this bundle pack that will give your wife freedom to explore with a bunch of items- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26760

    If it's not suitable, more information like your budget and what you've already tried may be useful in advising some toys.

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    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    My guess would be that if she prefers clitoral stimulation to orgasm, then a vibrator would be more suitable. If she prefers to have penetration to orgasm then a dildo. However, like already posted I would get her a vibrating dildo or a rabbit (Something where you have the best of both worlds.)

    Like these:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15336

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14884

    Or if you are unsure what to get her. Why not get one of the kits? That way there are multiple toys inside and she can pick and choose and experiment and you can both discover what she prefers for next time. Here are a few of the kits:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26760

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16775

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11850

    Dont forget the batteries and the lube :D

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    Tiberius [sign in to see picture]
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    I had the same dilemna when I wanted to make a surprise first purchase for my OH. Couldnt decide so I got a basic vibe , dildo & bottle of lube and packaged it up in a gift wrapped basket so she could choose.

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    protectyournuts [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH prefers vibes, as she can use it for clitoral stimulation and easier orgasm. I don't think she has ever wanted a Dildo, despite me offering more than once! But it would all be down to personal taste.

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