• Light bondage - newbie question

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    I have a date with someone I know likes to be tied up, but I am a total virgin at all that.

    Any tips?

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    snapper [sign in to see picture]
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    Make sure you have a clear discussion about a safe word make sure you know it, he or she knows it and the real meaning of it !

    That way sometimes NO can mean yes !

    Ground rules are inportant and as long as thats understood the world is your oyster just go with what feels right !

    If your uncomfatable about something dont ! its realy that simple !

    and did i mention the safe word !

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks snapper, that sounds good. :)

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    Honeytongue [sign in to see picture]
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    Don't tie around pressure points. Check circulation. Have lots of fun.

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    keep communication at all times with them during the fun... always need to make sure they are ok.

    as a submissive, they put a lot of trust in to your hands as a dom.

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    Plain Jane [sign in to see picture]
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    You could try a Karada body harness as a starting point. Just google it, for instructions.

    It can easily be expanded to constrict arms and legs as well.

    It's easy to do and a safe way to learn rope work and bondage

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    Noon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for all the tips.

    I was hopeless! lol

    Still, early days.

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    Plain Jane [sign in to see picture]
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    As they say, practise makes perfect.

    Have fun

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