• What kind of whip

    loveplaying [sign in to see picture]
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    We are relatively new to toys but want to start with some whip play but dont know which kind of whip is best to start with. Some pain OK but not long lasting marks

    StripyEnigma [sign in to see picture]
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    A little flogger is a nice starter - Can use it softly for more teasing purposes but it can really pack a sting if the situation calls for it. Something basic like: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19603

    The floggers with knots in the end will hurt and sting more.

    A crop can be good fun, but more local spot and gets some getting used to with the length http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15825

    A paddle is more of a thud pain rather than a sting. Good starting place for spanking as it's not too painful and hard to miss with (unlike a crop or a flogger) http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21800 anything basic like this one will do the trick.

    P.S. I don't have experience with the specific items I mentioned, I just found the first example of each (apart from the first flogger which is lots of fun for newbies and anyone else!)

    Plain Jane [sign in to see picture]
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    When starting playing with whips its a good idea to have the recipient actually bent over something like the side of a bed or the arm of a chair so that the ends don't sneak round the front and hit more vulnerable parts

    Heatseekher [sign in to see picture]
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    possibly depends on how much warm up play you've done to date......

    if you've progressed past using your hand or any othert solid household object like a hairbrush then i'd vote for a softish slogger - suede. That can vary between soft sensual play to something that when wielded hard will sting a bit.........if that and a hand goes down well then poss look to a leather paddle/tawse and then onto a heavier flogger.

    we also have a crop but prefer to use that for a bit of pussy teasing, it doesnt seem to be that fulfilling for general ass spanking...

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