I have been on Lovehoney before and love their products and gained great advice before, I am in need of more advice as recently want to explore more feelings etc..
A little about me..got married this March to my partner and we have been together 9 years prior, I just turned 28 and him 30. He has been the only ever sexual partner ever for me and we have had our ups and downs (a down being when I completely lost interest in sex for over a year a couple of years back). I am pleased to say that is no longer a problem but I have found my interests in sex developing and unsure now how to go further..
In terms of development, I have always had fantasies on rough sex, slight choking and bondage...being a plus sized girl though has always held me back alittle (feelings of dont deserve it and in the past had trouble with orgasms). My husband is more than happy and accomodating and never complains - we both know what are definite no nos.
I think I have always had a pretty submissive nature and where my curiosity lies is I know I am a sub in the bedroom but wonder whether to request and talk to my husband to take it further?