• Polyamory, Blindfolds and The Fifty Shades Effect - and another awesome giveaway

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    Lovehoney - Nicole [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello all,

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    hang on, so is the vidio actualy by Hella or not cos the blog gives the imprecions that it is but the vidios are by someone called lacey?

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    rag doll wrote:

    hang on, so is the vidio actualy by Hella or not cos the blog gives the imprecions that it is but the vidios are by someone called lacey?

    it says before the video 'our wonderful laci explains below'

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    Hella ........I think there is a difference between someone having a polyamourous relationship and man or woman having an affair(e) mainly about maintaining a pretence at monogamy.

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    rag doll wrote:

    hang on, so is the vidio actualy by Hella or not cos the blog gives the imprecions that it is but the vidios are by someone called lacey?

    Nope, the link is to Hella's blog and the video is by an American sex educator called Laci Green. I wanted to give different perspectives on polyamory. Sorry if it's confusing!

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    there is a difference between an affair and a poly relationship. In a poly relationship, all partners are aware, all 3 share eachother. If, say a man was seeing 2 women but those 2 women aren't together too, that is not a poly relationship, that's just 2 women being aware that their partner is dating 2 people, which would lead it to being an open relationship.

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    Hella....That is what I meant, having an affair, the man is having two simultaneous relationships that the women believe are monogamous, a completely different thing to a man having 2 or more wives who are aware of each other. In Saudi Arabia men can have 4 wives, but must provide a seperate home for each one, they rarely live under one roof and frequently never meet the other wife (wives).

    Personally I dont get it at all, I cant imagine being involved with more than one person at a time, its too much like multi tasking for my brain to cope with.

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