• Reading too much into it???

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    chuckybomcc [sign in to see picture]
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    After 8 years of being together and 1 year of marriage, and an amazing sex session tonight, my wife just said, "it's sex like that that stops you from straying"

    Am I reading too much into this or is there something behind it???

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Was that straight after sex?

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    chuckybomcc [sign in to see picture]
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    yes, still on top of me

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Might have been a off the chuff comment she wont look elsewhere as she enjoys you so much

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    chuckybomcc [sign in to see picture]
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    and "stops you from straying" refering to herself not me

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Ask her otherwiser you will drive yourself nuts

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    i would not read to much into it....it seems to be a throw away comment about how good sex was...

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    jeeeez ........cant you see a compliment when it slaps you in the face

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    My first thought was "Is that in a book or something?" Like a phrase she'd heard or read somewhere recently or maybe from a conversation.

    It has that ring to it.

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    Agreed, it sounds like a TV or film comment to me.

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    rose hip wrote:

    My first thought was "Is that in a book or something?" Like a phrase she'd heard or read somewhere recently or maybe from a conversation.

    It has that ring to it.

    agreed, sounded like she was trying a sexy 1 liner

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    Agreed it could be from a film or book but I agree with KF, ask her, or you'll overthink it and drive yourself nuts. Mention it in a relaxed setting, like over dinner or just watching tv :)

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    Sounds like a compliment to me.

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    dotdashdot [sign in to see picture]
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    It was a compliment!! She could have phrased it better but after a good session sometimes you blurt out things that you don't mean!

    Think of it as her meaning "wow that sex was so good I never want anyone else but you" ;) x

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    For what it's worth, I also read it straight away as a tongue-in-cheek compliment.

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    chuckybomcc [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you all for your responses, yes we spoke about it last night and she agrees that she could have said "that was amazing sex" in a better way than she did. It wasn't the best way to phrase it i think we all agree.

    TYVM. X

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