• I get off on the thought of my partner cheating on me

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    ZombieCpl [sign in to see picture]
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    I wanted to put this out there and see if I am the only one- the thought of my partner cheating on me turns me on, even with his ex who I despise. I got so turned on my the thought of catching him masturbating over webcam with somebody the other day that I actually initiated sex with him because of it. Of course I would never want him to have an affair and feel feelings for anyone but the sex idea certainly gets me off. He of course does not know this.

    Has anybody else experienced similar or acted on it? Does anybody have a medical term for it?

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    i enjoy seeing my OH masturbate or knowing he is watching porn, but i would go mental if he was having an affair

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    I'm not sure about a medical term but I think it would come under the term cuckold although that word is more usually associated with men who get off on their wives cheating.

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    apparently the fememinine term for cuckold is cuckquean

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    yeah the thought of someone wanking over porn and being caught is fun

    but having an affair not too sure on that idea

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    as I said it wouldnt be having an affair, it would be purely sexual. yes, I hadnt even thought of cuckolding, that might be it

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    I get turned on by the idea of my OH cheating on me as long as she tells me ALL about it after.

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    I know exactly what you mean. I get turned on by the same idea. I would love to watch my man with another woman. And i would go as far as saying i fantasize about this often - that my man would know i'm watching, or he is usualy forcing me in some way to watch....i would imagine every little detail. he would tell this woman she is the best he's ever had etc. the more degrading my man and the woman are to me, the more turned on i get.

    Though, if i ever happened to walk in on my man with another woman i would go nuts. My heart will break and i feel i would die if i ever heard him tell someone else she was the best he had ever had....

    i have told my man of my desires, but luckily he is understanding in that i don't want him to cheat in reality! he would never do such a thing. we have fun talking about scenarios though... i love to tell him my fantasies while pleasing him. i often write kinky stories for him to read when I'm away with work. and we love discussing threesomes and the things we'd like to do in a threesome, although we are not comfortable persuing one at the minute. I fear, as much as the idea of a threesome turns us both on that we are not ready mentaly for it yet... but we're hoping one day we can go on ahead and act on it. I feel, i wouldnt be heartbroken watching him with another woman if it was agreed with a set of rules and thoughroughly thought through. It wont be like he's doing it behind my back or without my knowledge. It will be purely sexual. it wont be like he's rejecting me for another woman, if you know what i mean. but like i said, we're still in duscussion over this, and it's been ongoing for some years now. it's not something we want to rush into =]

    but yes, I'm rambeling, what my point is ZombieCPL, you're not the only one with these fantasies and i don't think it's as uncommon as you think =P

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    sexy.hot.freak wrote:

    I know exactly what you mean. I get turned on by the same idea. I would love to watch my man with another woman. And i would go as far as saying i fantasize about this often - that my man would know i'm watching, or he is usualy forcing me in some way to watch....i would imagine every little detail. he would tell this woman she is the best he's ever had etc. the more degrading my man and the woman are to me, the more turned on i get.

    Though, if i ever happened to walk in on my man with another woman i would go nuts. My heart will break and i feel i would die if i ever heard him tell someone else she was the best he had ever had....

    i have told my man of my desires, but luckily he is understanding in that i don't want him to cheat in reality! he would never do such a thing. we have fun talking about scenarios though... i love to tell him my fantasies while pleasing him. i often write kinky stories for him to read when I'm away with work. and we love discussing threesomes and the things we'd like to do in a threesome, although we are not comfortable persuing one at the minute. I fear, as much as the idea of a threesome turns us both on that we are not ready mentaly for it yet... but we're hoping one day we can go on ahead and act on it. I feel, i wouldnt be heartbroken watching him with another woman if it was agreed with a set of rules and thoughroughly thought through. It wont be like he's doing it behind my back or without my knowledge. It will be purely sexual. it wont be like he's rejecting me for another woman, if you know what i mean. but like i said, we're still in duscussion over this, and it's been ongoing for some years now. it's not something we want to rush into =]

    but yes, I'm rambeling, what my point is ZombieCPL, you're not the only one with these fantasies and i don't think it's as uncommon as you think =P

    Thats really good to know! for me I like the idea that he has cheated but doesnt know that I know or am watching him I dont think being forced to watch would do much for me but completely agree about the degradation.

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    see, I'm very much into being controlled. I love my hubby dominating me, and perhaps for me having him forcing me to watch him with another woman is in a way more of a control thing. I'm not sure. Either way, whatever the reason behind it, my fantasies work for me, i enjoy them aswell as my hubby, and as long as they don't hurt anyone I can't complain =]

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    I also get of on this! I know that she likes the thought of a young guy doing her and sometimes I will just give myself a slow hand job while thinking about it and other times we willl talk abt it when she's riding me. As most say on here, dunno if I could go through with itin reallity!

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