• QUESTION FOR THE BOYS

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    ArchersKiss [sign in to see picture]
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    Its my other halfs birthday soon and as ever I dont know what to get him.

    Pennies are tight as we have just bought our first place together and are saving forour wedding next year.

    He has said that he dosen't need anything and that he would love a day of sex and kink all about him.

    so the question is,.... if it was your birthday. What would you like your little sex slave to do to you. And are there any specific toys you could recomend. i have a few ideas myself, but after 9 years I worry I might be getting predictable- still awsome but predicatable .

    I was thinking about binding him to the bed, blindfolding him and using one of the tenga toys on him.

    All tips greatfully recieved, that goes for toy recomendations too.

    Hugs and Kisses.

    xMx

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    ghost [sign in to see picture]
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    tie him up and drip hot wax all over his body. He will love it!!

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    Janny [sign in to see picture]
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    Whoms birthday is it? Maybe you should let him tie you to the bed, blindfold you, and then do whatever he wants?? x

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    rag doll [sign in to see picture]
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    great idea. i did this for my Partner too. you could also try making some sexy coupons for him.

    i like to wait for my partner on the bed in my most submissive pose wearing my collar and cuffs or a blindfold.

    if he is more of the sub though perhaps you could wake him up with your best femdom costume and pose :)

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    robin [sign in to see picture]
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    It it were me, I'd be hoping for a ' your wish is my command' scenario

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    ghost wrote:

    tie him up and drip hot wax all over his body. He will love it!!

    can you recomend a type of candle.

    would beeswax or parifin candles be better? I've tried it before, once was devine the other burnt like fook. So I think it was the candles. *hmmm time to reseach safe wax play*

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    ArchersKiss [sign in to see picture]
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    Janny wrote:

    Whoms birthday is it? Maybe you should let him tie you to the bed, blindfold you, and then do whatever he wants?? x

    he dose that anyway,.... because he said he'd like me to make the whole day about him and suggested me tying him up.... I want it to be memorable.

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    Tie him up with a couple of your softest longest scarves. Blindfold him , and tease him slowly slowly slowly. Drive him crazy with desire and need, then take him gently and slowly. Will blow his mind. As for pressies a nice espresso stove top coffee maker may go down well and will add to your home stuff for when yopu get married

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    ArchersKiss [sign in to see picture]
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    rag doll wrote:

    great idea. i did this for my Partner too. you could also try making some sexy coupons for him.

    i like to wait for my partner on the bed in my most submissive pose wearing my collar and cuffs or a blindfold.

    if he is more of the sub though perhaps you could wake him up with your best femdom costume and pose :)

    Did you put a best before in the fine print on the coupons?

    Neither of us are particular sub or dom. We both go either way in most respects . But I do like the idea of the collar.... I might get the chains and ropes box out.

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    hullabaloo wrote:

    Tie him up with a couple of your softest longest scarves. Blindfold him , and tease him slowly slowly slowly. Drive him crazy with desire and need, then take him gently and slowly. Will blow his mind. As for pressies a nice espresso stove top coffee maker may go down well and will add to your home stuff for when yopu get married

    mmmm

    thank you for both of those ideas! Your a star!

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    ArchersKiss [sign in to see picture]
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    robin wrote:

    It it were me, I'd be hoping for a ' your wish is my command' scenario

    anything else

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    hullabaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Which bit did you like ArchersKiss the naughty bits or the coffee maker

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    I'm not sure how experienced you are with toys, but I'd suggest the basic beginner's kit as it holds all the essential stuff- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22875 or http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25661

    I love the confidence you have lol. I think you only truly need that and a bit of creativity. You can't go wrong with the blindfold idea. The whole driving him crazy with desire and having him helpness is always a winner as others have suggested.

    You can use flavoured lube to make oral that tad bit more exciting (that extra enthusiasm makes a big difference). Massage candles or oils make a really nice romantic yet erotic touch. I'd suggest these:- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22425 (just add 2 more items from the 3 for £10 offer for a bargain!). Here: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/special-offers/1667/

    You could try finding out what appeals to him too. What are his kinks? Perhaps suggest watching porn together and see what he picks?

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    hullabaloo wrote:

    Which bit did you like ArchersKiss the naughty bits or the coffee maker

    Both!

    Naugtiness first folowed by a nice cup of coffee! ..... Sorry Guys Hullabaloo is winning so far,... any other sugestions?

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    ArchersKiss wrote:

    robin wrote:

    It it were me, I'd be hoping for a ' your wish is my command' scenario

    anything else

    doesn't that cover anything else?

    realy envy your OH

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    hullabaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry forgot to mention that as you finally seduce OH you only let him just enter you make him orgasm as your outer labia gently stroke him.

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    Nymeria [sign in to see picture]
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    Just thought I'd add the use of chocolate paint like this- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24474 OR http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2869 Pour and lick. And/or these: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8389 Loved them!

    You could also indulge in a sex game like this- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24157 It takes the edge off you planning and still having a sexy night in.

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    hullabaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    I also forgot to mention 3 other things.

    1. Tie him so he is spreadeagled or just tied to one post.

    2. Blindfold him with your softest toy.

    3. Pleasure yourself first and make him listen whilst you do it.

    I hope he has a Great Birthday!!!!!!!!

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    hullabaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Did I say softest toy, I meant softest scarf

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    Sounds like you already have the blindofld and ties sorted. How about making it a very slow sensation pampering session.

    For my lovers birthday I first went over his skin from top to toe with my fingers very gently and my nails very very gently, then I used a feather tickler like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6788. Again from top to bottom.

    Then I switched to this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14109 First using it at body temperature and then I put it in some ice whilst I gave him a massage with a warming massage lotion that was flavoured and lickable. One of the massage candles on here would be a good substitue maybe http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19018 then you have a choice of flavours to use for next time too.

    Then I used the ballbearing tickler again as it was now nice and cold - going from warm to cold is great but be careful around certain places. Then start to explore with your lips and tongue.

    By the time I got to using my lips and tongue he was begging for sex but also felt so relaxed and pampered. Add in a flavoured lube for oral at this point and I think you're going to have one very happy man.

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