• Threesome advice

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    MrsBliss [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,

    So for a while my husband and I have been talking about trying a threesome. He only wants a threesome involving another girl because he'd get too jealous if another man was involved. Double standards in my book, but hey, we eventually agreed on a girl then. I'm bi-curious and have had sex with girls before so the thought turns me on.

    Only problem is, where do we start? We don't exactly want to get a friend involved, ideally it would be a one off. Good thing is we both fancy the same type of girls, which would make it easier to pick someone but still not sure where to start looking.

    Does anyone have any experience in this and advice they can share? Are there websites to look for someone, any professionals we could hire,...?

    Help!

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    Lovebuzz [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm in a similar position, husband and I would both like a 3some with another woman (fella doesn't like the idea of another bloke and to be honest I wouldn't mind experimenting with a girl)

    Not a clue where to start looking for that though so will be keeping an eye on this post.

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    funguy1234 [sign in to see picture]
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    make sure you get to know then first and its someone you both want,

    i know a few sites i could tell you,ive added you

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    OperationFilth [sign in to see picture]
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    If you wanted to go down the escort route (some prefer the anonymity, the absolute lack of strings attached etc), I'd suggest registering as a potential client on a site like AdultWork - thousands of indies work through it. Look for someone who has good feedback and appeals to you in terms of look etc, then I'd suggest messaging her with the proposition to see how she feels about it, as it's not the average booking.

    If you'd rather go non-escort you could look at checking out a swingers website like FabSwingers. Register as a couple and search from there - the site on the whole is free (you can pay for some extra features but you really don't need them) and pretty easy to use.

    Personally we do tend to do friends, but being on the fetish scene helps!

    I would recommend communication (as always) between all involved - especially the couple. Make sure if there's anything either of you wouldn't be comfortable with the other doing, to articulate it, before the event.

    Good luck, and have fun!

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    MrsBliss [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the advice so far. Really appreciate it :)

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Good luck with it x

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