• A Thread for Women... Who love to watch Porn!

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    Heatseekher [sign in to see picture]
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    We watch porn together, although it seems judging by the random nature of where various dvd's are turning up in drawers/cupboards in the lounge/bedroom that JJ isn't averse to a viewing alone daytime. Funnily enough we were talking the other day about buying some fresh dvd's.....and i was saying that it's hard to do so without ending up with a load of dross.

    Thing with porn is that there's sub genres/styles within genres and trying to work out what will be worth a look is a royal pain. In the past when the $ was weak i just used to visit 1-2 of the huge US sites and armed with umpteen titles buy a batch at a time. Of which some were hits and some misses. A bit like reading a 'normal' book its easy to get sucked into a production house/series only to find that subsequent offerings aren;t so good.

    So....i've been tasked with finding some fresh material whichg would/could include: bondage, strong ravishment ( rougher scenes ) including forced/toy driven domination. to quote '' find me something a bit rougher, where soft eroticism becomes more bondage(y) ''........nice easy task then !

    Still the rsearch is ok

    ( there's about 20 dvd's waiting to be passed on to whoever wants them as they've run their course with us, can't promise they'll be exactly what anyone wants but in the spirit of recycling - ask and i'll pop them in the post - in a plain wrapper! )

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    mickylicky wrote:

    I agree with those who like porn where all participants seem to have a good time and consent to everything they do.

    It's great for me to hear from women and couples who are open about their enjoyment of this type of porn. I'll explain why...

    My wife and I sometimes watch porn together, but it's one of the very few areas where we're coy about communicating our feelings. I think we both like it but feel a bit ashamed of this. My wife tends to giggle and say that she finds it comical, but I'm certain that it fires up her imagination, as I've seen her get very aroused when I subsequently remind her of some of the scenes.

    I love the idea that the right type of porn can have that effect on my wife and I don't feel at all threatened about her getting steamed-up by on-screen action involving other blokes and women. As I mentioned earlier, I prefer porn that clearly represents the consensual playing-out of a fantasy. In my view, the best scenes aren't supposed to be taken literally (i.e. they wouldn't/shouldn't happen in reality) but stimulate our imaginations richly about how it might feel to play out roles that are very different from our normal personas. I'm wondering whether that might be part of the attraction for my wife and me, as we're both seemingly reserved and conventional on the surface, but we both also have hidden naughty streaks that rarely get expressed, even to each other.

    Hopefully my wife and I will eventually be able to get past our inhibitions about porn and start to enjoy ourselves openly with it. If anyone has any ideas on how to go about this, then I'd be very grateful to read them. It would also be comforting to hear from other couples how porn can be used positively within a relationship. Am I on the right track above? I'd love to know so that I can have the confidence to broach the subject again with my wife.

    Cheers!

    CH

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    rach74 wrote:

    oohyea2012 wrote:

    i love porn and i watch it more than the bf does lol

    glad its not just me then :)

    Same here I love it my girlfriends wont dream of watching it where as i enjoy it

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    I enjoy watching porn. Either alone or with my partner. I tend to either watch girls masturbating (but amateur, real girls. None of that over the top faking it porn star rubbish) Or I will look for BDSM. I like watching women and men being dominated and orgasm denial and teasing and pain/pleasure. Nothing too heavy, when its starting to leave scars or making someone bleed I am out! lol

    we also watch it together sending each other videos of what we found that turned us on or would like to try out together. Porns good as long as you dont get too addicted lol...some people like it some dont each to there own x

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    chickylicky wrote:

    I like watching girl on girl and 3somes which is weird as i have no desire to be with a woman in real life. I like amateurs best really, also like straight sex and cum shots

    I am the excate I like watching the above but I have no desire what so every to live it out in real life

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    sorry wandering slightly OTopic to answer C/Hubs question.......

    you don't have to watch porn to let it fire imagination, in fact i'd suggest that seeing it detracts a little from using imagination....however, the SOUNDS from a a porn movie can be highly stimulating depending on the scenario ( obviously need somthing without too much talking ). Using a blindfold means that that person has to use their imagination to conjure up the scene, which the 'sighted' partner can fuel......' mm she's loving that' or even a simple' wow i've never seen that' - leaves the other to interpret/guess/build their own picture........

    if you're looking for affirmation or a hint that your wife likes/is intrigued by some form of act i'd be wary of taking that interest literally. That's close to having pillow fantasy talk which more often than not is likely just to be just that - 'talk'.

    @ Fluff......which bdsm sites do you reckon are worth a look....have yet to find anywhere consistent. like you not into hard pain, more the journey of denial through to.......

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    Heatseekher wrote:

    you don't have to watch porn to let it fire imagination, in fact i'd suggest that seeing it detracts a little from using imagination....however, the SOUNDS from a a porn movie can be highly stimulating depending on the scenario ( obviously need somthing without too much talking ). Using a blindfold means that that person has to use their imagination to conjure up the scene, which the 'sighted' partner can fuel......' mm she's loving that' or even a simple' wow i've never seen that' - leaves the other to interpret/guess/build their own picture........

    I can vouch for that! A while ago, I transferred parts of the soundtracks from some porn films to my wife's MP3 player, and persuaded my wife to listen to them whilst blindfolded. Once we had progressed past her giggling / "this is silly!" stage, she became rather turned on by it, especially when we reached scenes that she remembered viewing, so that she could place the sounds but add her own mental pictures.

    Mmm... we haven't done that for a while. Maybe we should try it again. I love the idea of the 'sighted' partner fuelling the fire -- that could be brilliant!

    Heatseekher wrote:

    if you're looking for affirmation or a hint that your wife likes/is intrigued by some form of act i'd be wary of taking that interest literally. That's close to having pillow fantasy talk which more often than not is likely just to be just that - 'talk'.

    I'd agree with that caution -- it's not quite what I meant, though! My point was that my wife and I sometimes watch porn scenes which then trigger the urge for us to re-create them ourselves. Generally, though, we only want to play them out as a shared fantasy, with our imaginations filling in the details of surroundings etc. Indeed, the acts depicted are often ones that we'd definitely not want to happen for real!

    To put it another way, I'm suggesting that the right sort of porn can serve a useful role for couples by enabling them to explore potential fantasies together without the pressure of one having to ask the other outright: "Do you fancy the thought of XYZ?". Quite often, my wife and I find ourselves exchanging glances during porn -- mostly to share a "No way!" reaction, but occasionally to go "Hmmm... interesting!". Some of the latter have been real "Eureka!" moments for us.


    Hope that clarifies things!

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    I watched you porn the other day and got very turned on by the girl on girl. I have no desire to do it in real life, but I love the fantasy of it. My husband won't watch porn so I've decided to watch it when I'm by myself. I bet I'll get him into it eventually though.

    I find it very liberating watching porn and masturbating to it

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    I cant see any problem with it...

    If men do it why shouldnt women ?

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    I love watching porn. I hate it when they try to add a story/plot. I'll switch to something else as soon as I see that.

    My best friend is addicted to porn (she's also a female) so I've been able to talk to her about it.

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    James Deen... my pornstar crush. God I wanna be nailed by him...

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    I would watch porn any day of the week, I used to watch it with my partner as well as on my own when he was out working. I don't understand why it is seen as being so taboo for a woman to watch it. I don't see anything wrong in it at all :)

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    I watch porn now and again. On my own though as surprisingly my OH doesn't like / not interested in porn at all. I don't see the problem with women watching it at all, Perfectly normal in my opinion.

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    Me too I like it when I'm playing solo ;)

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    I also watch porn, I prefer amateur porn to hollywood porn though.

    I find it quite shocking how porn is taboo for women though :s I told my friends years ago that I watch it and their reaction was 'isn't it for men?' :0

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    Just following on from the conversation about porn enabling you to share new role plays and fantasies: that is excellent! If something helps you discover new ways to play together and spices up things, then yay!

    For me though (dunno about other women) I have noticed that it isn't the actual act as a whole that turns me on when watching porn, but the nuances within that play to my own desires or fantasies. Like, I don't necessarily watch a porn scene to watch the role play, but to see subtle things, like a noise, or a throb or seeing she is wet.....well I won't go into further details lol. I am not looking for a scene in itself, but signs of genuine and true enjoyment portrayed in the faces, bodies and sounds. The more excited the people, the better. I think that is what does it for me and probably why I lean towards amateur.

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    I agree fluffbags, I watch it more for the excitement and the noises than anything. I thinks that’s why I like amateur porn more as Hollywood porn moans can sound so scripted and fake.
    I’m more into the audio of the porn rather than the visual.

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    My wife enjoys emmanuelle style fillms, not because they're retro, but I gues du to the lack of full on cock in out shots etc, any ideas of modern day films of a similar style ?

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    I am partial to a bit of James Deen, when solo. O like the way he whispers to the actresses and talks hard and dirty to them but almost as it is trying to be private and not for. The cameras. He has a new set of 5, 1 night stands with very very different women. One who entered a competition to be with him. Can't remember what it was called, sorry. I do also like a few tumblr sites of stills and gifts that are more girl friendly.. yummypornforgirls is one I think. I like black and white shots and more girl friendly porn. I like handsome, hard men who know what they are doing. Don't mind looking at girls but wouldn't be driven by it.

    Have never talked with porn with any girlfriends. I have one who I am jealous of as she talks bout porn in hilarious throwaway comments that embarrass her husband but make me snort. She clearly has quite the habit and is very open about it.

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    Its so difficult, I wish my wife would just find something horny that we can watch, rather than me having to play a game of hit and miss !!!! I find the visual side of things a massive turn on.

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