• kinky birthday present?

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    madsheep [sign in to see picture]
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    I have been with my partner for just over 9 years. We got married this year. We have always just had straight sex. He is so shy that when I asked him what kinds of things he is into so I could get him something special for our honeymoon, he just shrugged and blushed. I am happy with how things are... kind of

    The problem is... we have been trying for a baby for just over 3 years now and thus far have not been sucessful. We have both been proded and pulled about for tests and we are starting to dread sex. To feel like we NEED to do it more, rather than just enjoying it. The passion has competely gone.

    His birthday is at the end of the month and I want to get a present. Something that means we look forward to sex. Something that makes it more kinky again!

    I thought about asking him, but if he gets embarrased about lingerie, then sex toys are probably going to get nowhere too.

    Any suggestions? I have tried massages but they just dont seem to do much anymore.

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