• Straight so far, but love cock?

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    fitguyslim [sign in to see picture]
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    Reading your post swingcouple makes me definitely want to explore the sauna option. The anonymity appeals, as does the chance to be watched, which is a turn-on too.

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    If you find the Sauna's a bit heavy, a lot of swinging clubs do hold bi-nights so you could pop down there.

    I've ever been (yet!) but get the impression swingers clubs would be a bit more relaxed and not so full on... unless you wanted it to be so in private?

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    theCarnalCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Posted on this thread a while back, not a lot to add to what has been put, just wanted to add a to the thread as a whole.

    Bit lost on the Mens Only Sauna club though......are they basically a gay/bi meet up for sex club?

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    the_young_couple wrote:

    Bit lost on the Mens Only Sauna club though.....are they basically a gay/bi meet up for sex club?

    Never been personally, but thats the impression I get as well.

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    swingcouple [sign in to see picture]
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    jenson and tammy wrote:

    If you find the Sauna's a bit heavy, a lot of swinging clubs do hold bi-nights so you could pop down there.

    I've ever been (yet!) but get the impression swingers clubs would be a bit more relaxed and not so full on... unless you wanted it to be so in private?

    Think you are right jenson and tammy, men-only saunas can be very full-on, more so than swinger clubs, but there's no compulsion to actually do anything, just say 'no thanks' if you get touched or asked. Both men-only saunas and swinger clubs are there for people to meet others for sex, either casual or with friends, and both have 'open' rooms where people can play while others watch, plus private cubicles with beds if you want your sex to be private. Swinger clubs don't exclusively have same-sex activity on bi-nights, there's always plenty of hetero sex going on. Both sorts of place share one golden rule - "no means no" and anyone who doesn't observe this gets asked to leave!

    We thought swingers clubs might be a bit sordid, and approached our first visit to one a bit nervously. We found it to be a relaxed, happy and uninhibited place and we were made to feel very welcome. While we didn't interact with anyone the first time we really enjoyed the atmosphere and soon went back. We've been regular clubbers for years now, think it's a pity more people don't try them!

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    if all goes well, we will soon be attending a swingers club for the first time!

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    M & A [sign in to see picture]
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    jenson an tammy - be interested to find out how you get on there

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    fitguyslim wrote:

    Reading your post swingcouple makes me definitely want to explore the sauna option. The anonymity appeals, as does the chance to be watched, which is a turn-on too.

    Have you found anywhere yet to go?

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    fitguyslim [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes, Pleasuredome in London, near Waterloo. Am planning a visit as soon as

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    Jamesmc91 [sign in to see picture]
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    Would love to have a friend that I could go to regularly for this. Nothing like deepthroating a nice big cock and then taking it in the ass.

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    kinky str8 [sign in to see picture]
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    my word what an interesting thread. i am a straight male who loves pegging and would let my wife do me every day if she wanted. the more realistic the dildo the better i find.

    also i am very attracted and turned on by shemales, i watch shemale porn (more than i watch straight porn) but find i want the girl to look as femme as the real thing but just love anal and a nice attractive big cock,i dont think of them as guys with tits at all. i get very turned on by cock but do not find men attractive at all, i know when a guy is good looking but i dont find them sexually attractve.

    dont be hung up on labels though, it stupid to try and catorgorise yourself ( thats a stupid society hang up that leads to u feeling shitty cuz u feel u cant work yourself out), i'll tell u what u are for certain in any case, YOU. you are who you are and there are plenty more people like you and if your lucky enough u are sure to meet them and share your fantasies together, i also like crossdressing on a regular basis and feel very happy when fullfilling my fantasies and dreams, lifes to short for messing around, just do what u want and dont worry about it. as long as nobody is getting hurt in the process (unless in a good way if u get my drift lol) what does it really matter. love to all. xx

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    Baolua [sign in to see picture]
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    I dream of being taken by a big black cock and would love to go to a sauna club but am too nervous :-(

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    Stevos [sign in to see picture]
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    I've liked cock from early adolescence after touching and playing with other cocks (boys only school!!) but I was only ever physically attracted to girls - so I knew I was bi from an early age. Also, I've always enjoyed my bum being played with and had various girl friends who used toys/vegetables/objects on me.

    I had a few casual "encounters of a cock kind" over the years but never anything too heavy until 4 years ago. I decided that as I enjoyed watching gay porn more than hetro combined with past cock pleasures therefore, why not see how far I would go. So I joined a gay/bi contact site and after a few days I had my first meet - yes I still liked cock! I started off by just having mutual bj's to ending up having full sex (I'm a bottom by the way), visiting saunas and having 3 sums. As for kissing another man, I never thought I would but it makes for an ever heightened experience so much so that I would refuse to meet anyone who didn't kiss - foreplay is everything.

    The guilt (my wife has no idea) at first was difficult but gradually the pleasures outweighed the guilt.

    As daft as it seems I'm still not physically attracted to men until I'm in bed with them ie on the street if a guy walks past I don't eye him up or down and think "I'd like to shag him" - on a beach is different though!

    I've now "retired" from this life and have now explained to my wife my need to be analy satisfied so I shall be buying the http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971 or http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16277 for MY birthday!

    BTW - there is no comparison between being fucked by a dildo or cock - a cock (for me) wins always.

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    I love the idea of using a strap on on my boyfriend. I regularly use fingers and have used dildos in the past but he seems a bit on the fence about an actual strap on. However he does like me to simulate fucking him using nothing?? This is my biggest fantasy and would love to do this with him.

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    Scarlet Couple wrote:

    looks like a lot of fun yummymummy ;)

    I've been looking at http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24623 (if money was no object) but more than likely this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16277

    Careful with the second one, read my reveiw.

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    kinky str8 [sign in to see picture]
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    just buy one and put it on one night. i bet he wont say no if you have already used toys on him im sure. he shouldnt anyway, tell him to shut up he'll love it. lol. may i suggest the doc jonson ur3 range though, a bit pricey but very worth it, they feel amazing. good luck with it and have fun. x

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    Ninja [sign in to see picture]
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    I want to be taken by a man, I enjoy pegging, I am straight, but would like to experience a real cock.

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    Stevos [sign in to see picture]
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    Ninja wrote:

    I want to be taken by a man, I enjoy pegging, I am straight, but would like to experience a real cock.

    As I said in my post, a cock beats a strap-on or dildo for pleasure as long as the guy knows what he's doing!

    However, you may then have to revise "your label" not that it matters, straight, bi or hetro, it's just a word.

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    chrisee [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm new here and I'm glad I've seen this thread! I'm a straight bloke, I don't find men in the slightest attractive but I have some cock sucking fantasies. These mainly involve going down on a very feminine transvestite but I'm also curious about watching porn with another guy and ending up fooling around with each other. I can't see this ever happening but I used to be able to suck myself and rather miss how it felt to have a cock in my mouth.

    My partner and I enjoy pegging and I spose I'm also curious as to how it would feel to take a real cock.

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    tomriddle [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm new here... But have recently had a few gay experiences. I've fantasised about guys since the days of group showers in School changing rooms. the only place you'd see guys naked after you hit puberty.

    I'm getting married soon and thought I'd better make the most of my not married state to at least say I've tried...

    Well annoyingly I REALLY like it... was away on business not so long ago and went to a sauna. Was pretty empty, but had a bit of oral fun with a guy before chickening out and leaving.

    Then joined Grindr (a good app for those who want to play around) and have found a great guy who lives nearby who is gay, but happy to have fun and let me play.

    I'm sure this will end before I get married, but I'll tell you now. No one knows how to please a man as much as another man.

    Just a shame they dont have boobies (although nothing turns me off more than a TS - weird eh?)

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