• Dominant or submissive?

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    sub-kitten [sign in to see picture]
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    I was just curious to hear who takes control of the bedroom activities in your relationships? I am a total submissive & am with a very strong, dominant man & wouldn't feel too comfortable taking on a dominant role but mostly because I'm not used to it. Maybe one day we might mix it up. From speaking to friends it seems there is a rise in men enjoying being dominanted by a women, what have you guys experienced? Do you enjoy the whole dom/sub thing? Or do you think things should be more equal? I think this could be a very interesting discussion, looking forward to hearing from you all :]

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    MissW [sign in to see picture]
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    I am the dominant one and i love it :)

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    Theolain [sign in to see picture]
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    I am naturaly submissive.... as is the wife. I really like being dominated by her but she thinks she isnt good enough and really doesnt do it very much even so it seems she has fun when she is and she does it well.

    Recently (from sat) I have been the dominant and had great fun with it but it doesnt do it for me as much as it does for her. She is the dominant (or should be) today and the rest of the week :-D she we will see how she does.

    I think men have always enjoyed being dominated by women.... it is just more mainstream now.

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    Chesty100 [sign in to see picture]
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    I am both really. I am really confident in the bedroom (because I just am naturally but also OH/exes giving me the extra confidence to take charge) so I do like to take control but I also love a guy to dominant me, have his wicked way and do as he pleases, telling me what to and be the manly man I love! Like a caged animal unleashed...yesssss please!

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    laurawalker [sign in to see picture]
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    im definetly the submissive one :D

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    jass [sign in to see picture]
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    Definitely Dominant! Although if I want something different I swing

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    Naughtybutnice12 [sign in to see picture]
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    A bit of both really. My OH loves to be dominated more often than not and I'm happy to oblige - I find it quite empowering and a huge turn on to see him enjoying himself so much but every now and then I just want him to take charge and use me in any way he pleases!

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    jenkat [sign in to see picture]
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    I always thought I was more submissive, but have recently discovered a very dominant side to me which Im looking forward to exploring!

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    fistinglover69 [sign in to see picture]
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    im submissive. dominating seems dead exciting in my imagination. i just dont really like doing it in sex

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    randubugger [sign in to see picture]
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    definately dominant when i get the chance

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    Big Dickie [sign in to see picture]
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    I love to dominate but would love to be dominated xxxx

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    i like both

    the switching is good for you!!!

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    Ms HKM [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a Top/Domme heavy switch.

    If you're into D/s dynamics then it's great fun, if you're just more 'in control' in the bedroom then you're mostly just a Top.

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    Candied Citrus [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm definitely submissive overall, though - on the rare occasion - I feel that I've submitted enough (as it were :P) and I get the urge to dominate. But it's not all that often.

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    afraidnotscared [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm another switchy type. I enjoy both roles & would be as bold as to suggest that I'm pretty good at both.

    If anything, a sub/bottom role is the one that comes more naturally, but I've had plenty of practice in a dom/top role too.

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    goodgirl93 [sign in to see picture]
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    Submissive :)
    Though i have been a top for women who have asked, but its really not my cup of tea. I lashed my OH once and once is all i was allowed, still recovering from that week xx

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    ha ha wish it was me there lol

    i'm a switch bitch can do both

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    VixenVic [sign in to see picture]
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    Id be a bit of both too.. But mostly submissive..

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    goodgirl93 [sign in to see picture]
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    lickmadick wrote:

    ha ha wish it was me there lol

    i'm a switch bitch can do both

    wish it was you where? :)

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    Honeytongue [sign in to see picture]
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    Submissive, but only to the right person. Being und the command and control of someone amazing is just heavenly.

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