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    shaunjean [sign in to see picture]
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    i would love to see my wife with another man or women knowing she is getting the sex she requires. i would just watch and if asked to join in i would, however i would not want her to go behind my back she would have to let me be therewith her( making sure she safe). I have told her this and when we play with her toys and tell her how horny she looks she always has a big orgasm so i think secrely she wants to try it but who know's?

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    shaunjean [sign in to see picture]
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    i would love to see my wife with another man or women knowing she is getting the sex she requires. i would just watch and if asked to join in i would, however i would not want her to go behind my back she would have to let me be therewith her( making sure she safe). I have told her this and when we play with her toys and tell her how horny she looks she always has a big orgasm so i think secrely she wants to try it but who know's?

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    john69 [sign in to see picture]
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    muttsnutts wrote:

    haggis 6969 wrote:

    Ive watched a fair bit of cuckhold porn and i love the idea of it wen im watching it but some fantasies are best left at that. Im by no means small in the cock department. 7 inches long and a good girth to me but thinking of a huge black cock pounding my girlfriend gives me a huge orgasm. But thats as far as it will ever go. She is the love of my life. And if i wanna see her take something monstrous we have LH to help :-)

    Pretty much summed my thoughts up there.

    totally agree, nice fantasy, but I wouldn't be able to do it irl, neither would my wife

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    Kimberleyking [sign in to see picture]
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    Mixed feelings altho I'd like a change and it would be really hot u also wouldn't like to be unfaithful

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    HornyTom [sign in to see picture]
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    I feel the word Cuckold is wrong and derogatory, as this involves the act of a wife having another mans child, without the husbands knowledge and then bringing up the child without the knowledge that it's another mans child.

    This word; 'Cuckold' is actually directed as an insult.

    However I believe most people are reading this as they are considering their partner having sex with another person, or they are both considering having sex with another.

    The subject of letting your partner have sex with other people is individually personal to the dynamic of your relationship. Each relationship is completely different, regarding what you have and love in each other.

    Reading different points of view is great, but I think telling someone what to do is wrong.

    I've been in a relationship where we full swapped with other people and it was bloody fabulous. I've also been a bull aswell, where I looked after, wine and dined and serviced the husbands wife, whilst he was away on business for long periods of time.

    I think It requires strength and confidence with each other, plus a huge ammount of respect. I'd rather have that element in my relationship, than not there.

    Hope that wasn't too long for people, but just don't like the word Cuckolding, That word feels very disrespectful, whereas giving pleasure and experiences to your other have doesn't feel like that to me.

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    Wife_Watcher [sign in to see picture]
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    I have wanted this for so long too, to see my wife with amnother guy would be awesome.

    I mentioned to her once while we were having sex but I don't think she thought I was serious. I'm going to bring it up again and see what she says.

    I'd love to chat with other about this or from guys who might be able to help me out. I'm in Dorset if anyone is nearby :)

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    I had a partner claim this is what he wanted was to watch me with another man. Yet later in the realtionship when he felt someone was even flirting me he went off the chain jealous... so I really don't think he could have done it in reality.

    I think it would potentially cause jealousy, think about why and what you want from that experience. Will it upset you if she really enjoys the other man? Will she even be comfortable enough to enjoy the other man?

    I realize everyone is different but it requires a lot of tought and solid communication between you.

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    Blithe [sign in to see picture]
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    The very furthest thing a thing can be, from being my thing.

    I also have to imagine that it makes your woman loose respect for you. Not only have you been ousted by another male, you're happy about it.

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    DreamOfTheEndless [sign in to see picture]
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    It's a huge fantasy of mine and, I would imagine, hers as well if the circumstances were right.

    In reality though, I'd imagine I'd cry through it.

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    sorry to bring up an old post, we are doing this tomorrow for the first time. starting slowly with a bbc friend of mine :)

    we have talked about this for a few years after seeing how swimging was for our relationship. i agree its not to be something you do lightly

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    occhiverdi wrote:

    sorry to bring up an old post, we are doing this tomorrow for the first time. starting slowly with a bbc friend of mine :)

    we have talked about this for a few years after seeing how swimging was for our relationship. i agree its not to be something you do lightly

    Well that's a coincidence - I was just about to post a question asking if there was anyone who'd had real experience as opposed to just expressing a view.

    Any couple's who have done this for real prepared to share the experience - and I don't mean the gory sexual bits for once!

    I'd also be interested to hear if anyone has found any sensible literature on cuckolding, it's dynamics and effects. There's a lot out there on the internet but mostly it's fantasy or sensationalist.

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    KeptLocked wrote:

    occhiverdi wrote:

    sorry to bring up an old post, we are doing this tomorrow for the first time. starting slowly with a bbc friend of mine :)

    we have talked about this for a few years after seeing how swimging was for our relationship. i agree its not to be something you do lightly

    Well that's a coincidence - I was just about to post a question asking if there was anyone who'd had real experience as opposed to just expressing a view.

    Any couple's who have done this for real prepared to share the experience - and I don't mean the gory sexual bits for once!

    I'd also be interested to hear if anyone has found any sensible literature on cuckolding, it's dynamics and effects. There's a lot out there on the internet but mostly it's fantasy or sensationalist.

    I'm doing it for the being watched factor and I know OH loves the fact he will be watching someone we've spoken about during sex actually do it in real life. a friend whomhas been cuck said it was about feeling wimpy and useless while watching a guy who was bigger and more toned please his wife.

    im guessing its the loss of control or being in charge

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    I didnt know what it meant until i just googled it now! Persoanlly its not my thing, I can see how it would apeal to people though

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    KeptLocked [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm doing it for the being watched factor and I know OH loves the fact he will be watching someone we've spoken about during sex actually do it in real life. a friend whomhas been cuck said it was about feeling wimpy and useless while watching a guy who was bigger and more toned please his wife.

    im guessing its the loss of control or being in charge

    Certainly the chastity play we indulge in has that element of loss of control for me and empowerment for her as she has gained all the control (I know you can't force chastity - it has to be consensual)

    Often cuckolding is spoken about in the same breath as humilation - it that really neccessary?

    I haave a vision that my OH could enjoy others, without guilt whilst I get pleasure from knowing with or without watching that she's had an enjoyable sexual experience with someone else.

    Is that too niave?

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    Hi guys new to this.

    Personally I think this is a great thing. I find my wife incredibly sexy she is everything I would want I a woman. I also am attracted to guys but the biggest turn on is seeing how excited another guy gets about how sexy my wife is. For me it's a dominating thing. Like showing off your brand new muscle car to your friends. I know that's very chauvinistic but she is sexy and I want everyone to know it and see her.

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    KeptLocked [sign in to see picture]
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    Rebooting an old topic - anyone else have views on this?

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    Man_wife86 [sign in to see picture]
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    We are a swinging couple and I love seeing my wife playing with other guys.
    I wouldn't say I enjoy cockold though (as we don't have the whole humiliation thing) I think we're more into hotwifeing.
    I love that she is having fun and I enjoy watching other guys enjoy themselves with her as I know what it feels to be on the receiving end of her pleasurings lol.

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    dirtylips [sign in to see picture]
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    In my fantasy world I would like to se my Oh with another man but not another woman, I think in reality though he definitely wouldn't go with another man and I'm not sure the reality would be as good as the fantasy.

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    Goooner1 [sign in to see picture]
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    Love being cuckolded :)

    Really turns me on seeing the wife being fucked and cleaning up after.

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    NightWaltz1993 [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner always talks about wanting to see me being taken by a bigger dick than his - this isn't something I'd be comfortable with really so we just substitute with dildos.

    We both still get plenty of enjoyment doing it this way ;)

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