• Being watched by a third party? Advice sought.

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    True_f#cking_Romance [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi All,

    We are a fun and open-minded couple and have recently discussed the idea of 'being watched' as we have sex. We fully understand the safety implications of such an event and have come to the understanding that we are not, a) Doggers, and therefore would not be comfortable in public, b) swingers and therefore would need to be around lots of stranger, or c) not webcam porn stars and therefore can't go public online.

    We think the best way would be to hire a suitable escort and take it from there, unless anyone has any other ideas or would like to share their experiences on the matter.

    We would like to do this as our joint birthday treat in 2 weeks time, so any suggestions/stories/advice would be greatly appreciated. We will keep any interested parties updated on how we ended up achieving it and feedback post-event.

    Cheers guys

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    Naked_butler [sign in to see picture]
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    yea just find someone you comfortable to have watch

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    sluthunny14 [sign in to see picture]
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    illumine, can i ask what website that was? me and my partner are also intrested in doing something like this. x

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    True_f#cking_Romance [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah, it would be my partner and I having sex with a third party watching (female). Adultwork looks preferable over the Dogging.co.uk one, as it seems more suited for our purpose. We see how people can make money from this, but we don't mind paying for the right person to watch us, i.e someone likewise open-minded, down to earth and; in a strange way, our type. Ref Adultwork, we seem to have shortlisted about 5 possibles already since reading this thread started and they are local and you can see their details/feedback and they do 'in-calls'. I think this offers the best route for us.

    Sluthunny14 - Have you thought about webcam, as you can get paid for that apparently? We would, but due to the nature of our jobs, we cannot be seen online, unless we wear masks, haha, in fact, that could be our niche market. Have you guys been watched before?

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    sluthunny14 [sign in to see picture]
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    thank you :) x

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    I cant believe you need to pay someone to watch you.. i would do it for free!! hehe

    Better correct that.. . would love to do it for free but dont think my husband would allow it

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    TTurtle [sign in to see picture]
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    but just imagine if you could make money from it!! It'd be like the ice cream tester guy who loves ice cream!

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLP9mbCuhJc

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    Jimi Duro [sign in to see picture]
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    which party are we talking ?

    Labour, Lib Dem or Cosevative LOL

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    True_f#cking_Romance [sign in to see picture]
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    Cheers guys. Don't get me wrong, it would be great NOT to pay someone, but paying does come with the added fact that you can check their feedback, look at their photos and profile and take your time deciding....which is exactly what we DIDN'T do, haha, we found a woman on Adultworks website (last night) that seems really down to earth and friendly and understands we are not swingers or doggers. We have provisionally booked to see her in just over a week.

    The club thing sounds cool, but we like the intimacy of just us and a woman watching. I think if you found a likeminded couple, you could email/send photos to build up friendship/trust, then possibly meet up and perform for the other couple. I think this would be ok, what do you think?

    We will keep anyone who is interested updated on our exploits in a weeks time.

    In the meantime, we welcome any other suggestions/tales...

    xx

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    True_f#cking_Romance [sign in to see picture]
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    ****UPDATE*****

    We have spoken to each other about this and decided it will be a whole lot fun. So on Saturday we meet a lovely woman who will watch us have sex. She even has a hot tub for us all to jump into beforehand.

    More details will be posted once we have experienced it....

    Wish us luck

    x

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    True_f#cking_Romance [sign in to see picture]
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    ****UPDATE*****

    We have spoken to each other about this and decided it will be a whole lot fun. So on Saturday we meet a lovely woman who will watch us have sex. She even has a hot tub for us all to jump into beforehand.

    More details will be posted once we have experienced it....

    Wish us luck

    x

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    angelkez [sign in to see picture]
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    sounds really interesting, i hope it goes well

    I'd love to try something like this but i'm not so sure my OH would be so into it

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    TheKittyKat [sign in to see picture]
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    Best of luck and hope you have a great time! Hope it lives up to expectations.

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    fistinglover69 [sign in to see picture]
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    i've only had an experience of that with another girl and it's not as fun as you might think!

    it takes the fun out of it as you feel like you're just performing for the sake of it rather than for your own enjoyment!

    i think i would prefer it if it was with my boyfriend though, hmmmmmmmmm

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    jjane47 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd suggest a Club setting, most have private or semi private areas and that way you can enjoy each other without thinking that you are putting on a show for just 1 person........hubby persuaded me to go to a Club and although i was a little reluctant with the idea once i was there i got really turned on. There was 1 room that had a cage like door, we were able to lock it so that no one could come in but a number of people were able to stop and watch......

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    VixenVic [sign in to see picture]
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    How did you get on with this?

    Id love to be the one watching, but would have no idea how to get into this sort of thing.. might be worth looking into.. I hope it was a fantastic experience for you both!

    Fill us in when u get a chance and let us know how it went for u :)

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    Hen Night Toad [sign in to see picture]
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    wondering how you guys got on?

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    GGM [sign in to see picture]
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    Looking forward to an update about this :)

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    Jimi Duro [sign in to see picture]
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    I would love to be watched !

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    Lovebuzz [sign in to see picture]
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    I love the idea of being watched.....I got my husband to fuck me on the window of a city centre hotel with the window open, listening to people walking past and pointing to us and discussing what we were doing was a massive turn on

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