• Threesome's

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    MrPink [sign in to see picture]
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    If my wife said she wanted to try a threesome I'd be happy to, with due planning and agreed procedures for bscking out if we didn't like the way it went. I wouldn't suggest it myself, psrtly because it's not something I crave, and also because we both flirt quite heavily with others and we know how far to go with that so as not to upset each other.

    I'd also bear in mind that, while not an unbreakable rule, men are generally programmed to want multiple partners more than women do.

    Sometimes the fantasy is more useful than the fact of it - if you can talk about others you might have fancied or flirted with while enjoying sex together, there's no reason why it couldn't spice up the session. Obviously you'll have to do what works for you as a couple. If you're single, then it's a whole different ball game although even at my most active I never sought out threesomes. I quite like the idea of two women ganging up on me but they'd have to just do it and it's never happened yet!

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    fistinglover69 [sign in to see picture]
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    the fact that youre not certain, id say dont! really, if it goes wrong it will nearly ruin your relationship and its just not worth it

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    rag doll [sign in to see picture]
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    HandcuffedLover wrote:

    I would do a threesome in which i was watching/directing/teasing the other two, as a bit of a dom/slaves situation perhaps. I wouldn't want to be in one physically though.

    im syking myself up for similar with my Master and a good friend of ours (M). we all agree no sex...probably fully clothed too- just some spanking, light bondage and voyerisum of sorts (Master said i can suck his cock if i get scared and that he doesnt mind our friend seeing that)

    our friends main worry is of spoiling mine and Master's relationship and thefact that he usualy subs girls. my worry is that ill get upset and that it will remind me of the one night stands i used to have before i met master (not a good memory for me) and of courese Master is mainly concerned for my safety and happyness.

    i would say a threesome is a big thing even if there isnt sex involved and i would definately only agree to participate where a strong relationship was involved. if i didnt trust Master or our relationship i would never say yes and to be honest im still stuck between being scared and excited.

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    hmm. i wouldnt mind if i was single or in a very casual relationship however i dont think i would want to share my wife (if i had one lol) with another guy... And i would only ever want a 3some with 2 girls if my partner was really, really up for it.

    i just think that it could upset the dynamics of a relationship. I think i would be to jealous to see one of my partners with another guy even if i was involved as well. That said i had a similar conversation with one of my ex's. We agreed that we would never have a 3some. However we did agree that if a COUPLE wanted to join us it would be ok.

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    mrsorgasmatron [sign in to see picture]
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    I aggree, don't push yourself if you don't wanna take the resk. It may damage your relationship like never before. I also like the idea of threeseomes but never with hubby.

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    mm strange i allways fancy my wife being involved

    but would only do it if she wanted to

    with care it was a complete stranger

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    NickAth [sign in to see picture]
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    I have been involved with a polygamous relationship before with two girls which I found quite exciting. One was bi and the other was willing to experiment and worked great. Ofc we had to put few rules on the table as we all wanted to enjoy ourselves with not so safe sex.

    Now I am in a monogamous relationship and when I asked her about it, she really does not like the idea with another girl and I do not like the idea with another male. It does not turn me on. I am not pushing her but I was definitely hoping to spicy things up a little bit but never mind.

    I tried to explain her though that no matter what, if something happens with someone, not to trust a word and to use protection. I would definitely respect that though despite the fact that I found her staring at me with a strange look whilst trying to understand what ment. I hope she got my point.

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    cassey001 [sign in to see picture]
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    sometimes things are better as a fantasy and left to the imagination rather than actually going through with it

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    bouncingbecky [sign in to see picture]
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    i have often thought about this i have had 2 in my past but when i have been single

    i could not have a threesum with my boyfriend as i dont like sharing my man and if another woman touched my man i would go mad and rip her eyes out lol

    but my boyfriend says am all his and he dont want to share me

    i suppose it depends on the sort of relationship u have i know of a couple that wife swap

    and they say well it dont matter who there with there always mine and will always come back to me

    hope this helps a little xxx

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    NickAth [sign in to see picture]
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    Sexyboots wrote:

    I hope she did Nick...not sure I do! Are you saying you would like to involve another person in your relatioship or that if you partner slept with someone else you would be ok so long as they used protection?? Sorry to be nosey I was just a bit confused...and also interested.

    Too much wine last night!!!

    I would like to involve another person in our relationship but this does not seem to fit well. Now, if she slept with someone else, i find it for some reason quite normal but 'safe' conditions is what I would expect.

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    cassey001 wrote:

    sometimes things are better as a fantasy and left to the imagination rather than actually going through with it

    I cannot agree more

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    Naughtybutnice12 [sign in to see picture]
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    It's a fantasy that me and my OH have discussed but I think it will stay that way as neither of us want to damage our relationship. I think if you aren't convinced and completely comfortable with the idea it's not worth the risk of ruining your relationship over - in my opinion, anyway

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    Janny [sign in to see picture]
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    Mmm interesting, now I'm single I would love it, but if I had a serious gf don't think I would like to see her with another man, though I wouldn't mind another woman, but then what would she think??? Aaah all complicated - if I was single I'd go for a 5some if offered, but in a proper relationship, probably would just keep it as a fantasy :)

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    occhiverdi [sign in to see picture]
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    we have done it as an experience together. I admit our swinging fun has got less as the relationship has developed, but we see it as a way to push each others buttons and its not something we do to spice up our sex, its something we do our of the show/curiosity factor. I regard it totally separarte to our intimate sex life.

    I do admit however that I have to prepare mentally for it and most of the time it involves men more than woman!

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    cassey001 wrote:

    sometimes things are better as a fantasy and left to the imagination rather than actually going through with it

    But you only live once, so if you want to try i would say dont deny yourself the chance of new pleasure. Just make sure everyone is totally comfortable with the idea and have an out, of stopping without guilt if the oh is uncomfortable at any point, communication is king and the key. But just follow your instincts they are there to guide and serve you well.

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