• How much time do you spend with your partner?

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    LoveFool [sign in to see picture]
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    Been together 20 years

    We are home together 4 evenings a week most weeks, plus probably 80% of the weekend

    Raising two young daughters with all that entails (one with physical & mental disabilities), housework, cooking, eating, reading, watching TV, laptop, shopping - otherwise known as "life"

    Kiss/cuddle not very often as that's not really us, but slap/fondle/grope/flirt/use smut & inuendo probably every other day and occassionally multiple times a day

    Well sometimes frankly I need some time alone, but that's often to get away from the kids rather than the wife. It's very possible for us to have alone time in the same room however if we are both reading as there's no talking or the like.

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    occhiverdi [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    Just going on 2 and a bit years

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    We see each other everyday with the odd night away for work or if he's at his own place etc. As I work different hours, I tend to see the people/do the stuff I have to before he gets home.

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    We relax, watch tv/films, walk loads and eat out. Nothing seems much of an effort to be honest. I'm pretty sure if I had a garden we'd be out there too. We also cook from time to time.

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    A lot, we have our own things we do when relaxing/watching tv.

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    I do, yes but when he works away etc it just makes it all the better when he comes back.

    Having been in a LDR in the past, it was hard work and never felt right except when we were talking on the phone/computer. It was what made us feel more comfortable I suppose.

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    fistinglover69 [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    2 years, but were "friends with benefits" 8 months before we actually got together

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    we dont live together yet so it varies, about 2-4 days a week sadly, but we talk constantly

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    watching films, cuddling, going out to eat, the pictures, reading together, recreational substances ahem

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    constantly! apart from sleeping cause we cant sleep like that so we touch bums instead : P

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    the more i see him the more i want to see him, but i think if we were together 24/7 we'd murder each other : P

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    thumpingrug [sign in to see picture]
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    morefun wrote:

    How long have you been together?

    20 Years

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    Almost all of it. We work in the same office travel together and often have to attend teh same meetings and conferences

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    We visit new cities, shop. Spend time in coffee shops people watching. Gigs and lots of music.

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    Daily. In fact several times daily

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    Certainly miss each other if we do have to go away. So we try not to

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    MissBoo [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    5 1/2 years

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    We spend every evening after work together, and all day Sunday if we're not out doing things

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    Watch TV, watch films, shop, go for a drink, go out for meals, cinema, socialise with mutual friends, visit family ect..

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    We kiss every day when leaving for work and cuddle every night

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    Sometimes we can get a little frustrated with each other and then chose to spend a day or two doing our own thing, but after we've had a little 'me' time, we probably love each other that little bit more.

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    angelkez [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    8 years this year

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    we live together so every day however one week we get evenings together and one week we get to wake up together, pretty much all weekend too

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    going out, cinema, eating out, boring house stuff

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    we cuddle in bed generally, not much kissing unfortunately :(

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    not at all, i love spending time with him but i also don't mind him giving me some alone time :)

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    Almost 7 years

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    In the week I can get home from work anytime between 6.30pm and 10pm and usually leave for work at 9.30am so we spend our evenings together and share a bed, albeit with different bed times at the moment. On the weekend, he works from 7am-12pm and I tend to be in the lab for an hour or so each weekend so we spend our afternoons together.

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    Weeknights we watch tele together or listen to podcasts and generally just relax. We go out pretty much every Thursday with friends - I usually go straight from work and he meets me there. We probably spend every other Friday or Saturday evening with friends also but this is more variable. Then weekends we'll go to whatever events are on in Liverpool if there is something on, if not we just have lunch in town together, wander round and get bits and bobs for the coming weeks

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    Regularly. We have at least one long cuddle an evening and several over the weekend. Kisses are regular too - when one of us leaves a room or just as we're passing each other. Then when I'm about to go to bed we'll spend half an hour or so in bed together cuddling and catching up on intimacy.

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    I feel closer when we're together more but sometimes I feel closer when we've been apart because I miss him. It kind of depends on my emotions too - this weekend he had an afternoon sleep as he'd had some mental shifts at work and I missed touching him just in that hour whereas other times I can go a good few hours and just feel normal around him and not too close or too distant.

    Adx

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    AliMc [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    About 17 months.

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    We're long distance. Usually see him once a month for 2 nights.

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    Watch tv, go the cinema, play video games, eat out at restaurants, go for walks in the park, visit museums... that kinda thing.

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    As often as possible. My family aren't very physical, and I don't have any friends, so I get all my affection and cuddles from my boyfriend and I guess I can go a little overboard with it sometimes lol

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    We talk online every day which definitely helps but the loneliness does still get to me.

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    Miss-C [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    2 years

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    At the minute no time at all,I haven't seen him since March. but usually he's home one long weekend in 3 and getsa couple of week off every few month, at those times we spend 24/7 together

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    talking,watching films and tv, seeing friends,going out to do various things, pub(alot), going for walks, planning or holidays

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    when we're together quite alot

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    Difficult question, sometimes when he's away for long periods of time i'll feel really close because of the letters we write to eachother. On the other hand when he's home i'll feel really close to him because i've not seen him in so long. I guess really we're quite a close couple very open with eachother.

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    georgie69 [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together? 12 years

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week? Day...3-4 hours

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex) Looking after our children

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?Kisses and cuddles every day

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?I would like to see him more but I know he is working hard to support us,weekends are great if he dosn't have to work. the girls and I miss him like mad when he has to go away for work,

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    Theolain [sign in to see picture]
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    How long have you been together?

    8 yerars in September

    How much time do you spend with your partner on a typical day or week?

    Not nearly enough time as we both work and I work shifts. But we live together so whenever we are not working we are usually together.

    What do you spend that time doing? (excluding sex)

    Cinema, Watching TV together (mainly downloaded shows or dvds), Going walking or just generally out, Eating out.

    How often do you kiss/cuddle?

    We always cuddle and I think we kiss lots be she doesnt think so. Pretty much at least once a day for kissing and cuddling. Usually at bed time.

    Does how much time you spend together affect how close you feel to your partner?

    I would love to not work shifts so I can see the wife in the evening but as we live together it doesnt affect me too badly. I just think it would always be good to spend more time doing stuff with her.

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