Dating is exhausting!

Sorry to hear you are getting messed around Miss TC!!

 hmm i really dunno what the hell was up with the guy i went on a date with today :S ah at least cinema and movie was ok

dotdashdot wrote:

I love that kinda humour I'm exactly the same! You just need to find a girl who appreciates it and doesn't take it too seriously.

I totally agree, it's just finding that person that appreciates it :) 

I always read peoples profiles, I would never just send loads of copy and pasted messages, that's so rude, it's like walking around in a bar and going up to every girl and saying "I thnk your sexy, will you sleep with me?" "nope", next one......

dotdashdot wrote:

Well if she's a complete troll TT then don't bother replying. It's not good to be too fussy but come on, there is a limit! :P Not a looker with a profile full of text speak is a big no no!

In my experience the ones with the not so good pictures are better in real life and the ones where you're eyes are popping out of your head aren't that great in reality.

The flirt button on POF is just so that women can show an interest without having to send a message. It's very silly really. x

..ah horses for courses..I don't usually go for the classically beautiful women I like them to be a bit different or quirky but...dayymn

Wow crazy there's nothing like that on a 'male' account :-/ very silly indeed..why don't we get that?! I understand the whole making the first approach thing but still..

Ggggrrrr, fed up with yet another one saying one thing and meaning another, why is it so god damn hard to just be honest, pisses me off.... then if you decide I'm not for you, just bloody well have the balls to say so, it's not that hard.... ggggrrrrrr

Hmm oh dear MTC :( hope it works out for you. Added you as a friend on here if you fancy a chat.x

sweetlove666 wrote:

 hmm i really dunno what the hell was up with the guy i went on a date with today :S ah at least cinema and movie was ok

MissTerryCleavage wrote:

Ggggrrrr, fed up with yet another one saying one thing and meaning another, why is it so god damn hard to just be honest, pisses me off.... then if you decide I'm not for you, just bloody well have the balls to say so, it's not that hard.... ggggrrrrrr

Uh oh girls what's happened? xx

sweetlove666 wrote:

 hmm i really dunno what the hell was up with the guy i went on a date with today :S ah at least cinema and movie was ok

MissTerryCleavage wrote:

Ggggrrrr, fed up with yet another one saying one thing and meaning another, why is it so god damn hard to just be honest, pisses me off.... then if you decide I'm not for you, just bloody well have the balls to say so, it's not that hard.... ggggrrrrrr

Uh oh girls what's happened? xx

dotdashdot wrote:

sweetlove666 wrote:

 hmm i really dunno what the hell was up with the guy i went on a date with today :S ah at least cinema and movie was ok

MissTerryCleavage wrote:

Ggggrrrr, fed up with yet another one saying one thing and meaning another, why is it so god damn hard to just be honest, pisses me off.... then if you decide I'm not for you, just bloody well have the balls to say so, it's not that hard.... ggggrrrrrr

Uh oh girls what's happened? xx

@dotdashdot, do you think we're missing out on something?

Oooh, thanks to @dotdashdot, I've found the "messages must be 50+ characters in length" setting.

No doubt that means I'll start getting messages saying HiHiHiHiHiHiHiHiHiHiHiHi - and I just lost count. You get the idea....

Oooh that sounds like a good idea! I'm putting that setting on right now! xx

Oh noooooooooo! All the "hi" emails have dried up! No more emails! Aieeee!

Ahhh my inbox is at peace :) x

Oh cr*pbuckets, the special offer on the arts dating site expired at 11pm, not midnight (it said midnight, though). So that leaves me at the mercy of POF and OKC..... oh no!

Okay check this one out

"omg i know u .......................................... .................."

He really made an effort to fill those 50 characters didn't he?!

I don't recognise him but am now paranoid!

Unlucky Chip :( x

*hoots with laughter* Oh noooooooooo!!!!!

I'm trying to get some work done, so it's just as well that the emails have died down - but now I'm feeling all unloved and unwanted! :(

chipilapa wrote:

*hoots with laughter* Oh noooooooooo!!!!!

I'm trying to get some work done, so it's just as well that the emails have died down - but now I'm feeling all unloved and unwanted! :(

Ahh man I'm terribly sorry chip I was meant to reply back to you earlier today I've been all over the shop, I left my phone at home today (literally my life line when I'm working @ a customers) and it went down hill from there! Aww I feel terrible :( sorry. I need to shower then bed now but tomorrow evening I shall furnish you with a stellar reply. With more than 50 chars as well!

I have a really big fear of being messaged by someone I know on there. Or walking down the street and someone recognising me. Completely irrational I know!

I've deleted the message and hidden my profile for good measure!

Remember, "hey lol................................................" does not = love! x

dotdashdot wrote:

I have a really big fear of being messaged by someone I know on there. Or walking down the street and someone recognising me. Completely irrational I know!

I've deleted the message and hidden my profile for good measure!

Remember, "hey lol................................................" does not = love! x

Ah dammit that's where I've been going wrong :( thanks for the tip 
I replied but it seems there is an upper char limit too so its came in two parts incase you think the first ended abruptly haha!

Isn't it funny how POF has become a messaging service for us? Me likey!

 2 messages from new people and one from someone who I've exchanged a couple of messages with before. Perhaps things are looking up! However..

The two new ones made absolutely no effort with their messages #1 "you viewed my profile but didn't say hello :(" and #2 "hi how are you?" - I may mail back #1 since she seems fairly nice. 
And the one who I've exchanged with before is from Africa and thus barely speaks a word of English..hmm lol

Number 1 sounds good, means she's checked out your profile and wants you to message her :)

At least number 2 asked you a question not just "hey lol"!

Things are looking up indeed!

And I've been booked for a 6th date... though it feels like more than that as some have overrun into the next day :P x