• Do you know or mind how much your partner masturbates?

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    Helenka78 [sign in to see picture]
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    My best friend confided in me that her husband caught her with her vibrator that she kept private and he didnt know about. He really was not happy and didn't like it and she was asking if my husband knew if I played alone. Me and my husband are completely open about this and I know he has a wank pretty much everyday and I'm about the same which he knows about and doesnt mind at all. Do you share this info with your partner?

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    rag doll [sign in to see picture]
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    i have never minded but then me and my partner are long distance and i know how difficult it would be for him not to. even if we wernt though i don't think i would mind. he knows i do to and doesnt mind- in fact he likes it when i do. sometimes he will do it whilst we are talking on skye and sometimes he will make me play with myself so he can watch.

    i dont even mind him watching porn and i sometimes watch it too.

    i once asked him what he thought about whilst playing with himself and why he watches porn and i was so happy when he said that if he is watching porn that he imagens the person as me :)

    so in answer to your question, yes we definately share this.

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    georgie69 [sign in to see picture]
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    My hubby and I have no secrets (apart from how much my new shoes were lol)

    We both play together and alone and have loads of fun

    He loves having a wank,cumming over me and then sitting back watching me

    He likes me to send him naughty pictures whilst he is at work too.

    Yes all this is shared x

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    mrsarthur [sign in to see picture]
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    I am not sure how often my hubby does im sure its more than what he has told me when i ask how often :) I dont know when he does it, its not something we openly announce to each other but we both know we both do it and it doesnt bother us, we also do it togeather aswell so its not like its a totally closed subject

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    Gym Man [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't mind how often she does it if it makes her happy.

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    tallgal [sign in to see picture]
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    We are a pair of horny buggers, and both know the other masturbates at least once a day. Find it a bit of a turn on actually.

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    TheKittyKat [sign in to see picture]
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    We both masturbate regularly, both separately and together. When we play on our own, we don't necessarily tell each other about it - only if it comes up in conversation - but there's no secrets there.

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    occhiverdi [sign in to see picture]
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    I've never really counted how often he mastrubates and as for me, I tell him when I do but I rarely do as we have so much sex!

    I don't really bother with him mastrubating, as it usually leads to sex or something else equally dirty.

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    J+J [sign in to see picture]
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    We both do it, and both know about it. Doesn't bother me in the slightest, and if we are together it usually leads to more!

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    Haywire [sign in to see picture]
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    I know for a fact my OH masterbates quite often, she has a super high sex drive.

    We've has to spend even more time apart then usual so he 'specially does it more.

    But him masterbating is more or less none-existant while i'm there.

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    kc. [sign in to see picture]
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    We both know that each other masturbates and watches porn whilst the other one is not about. and we will do the same with each other. I have bought my wife such a large collection of toys, with some very large toys, and I love the thought of her doing it and indeed encourage her too. Nothing hornier than the thought of her watching porn and using a very large dildo when I'm not about.

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    smirnoff09 [sign in to see picture]
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    we are both open with each...we play alone and together and it has never been an issue...while he is workign away from home we make full use of the phone while we play...

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    GregT85 [sign in to see picture]
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    My girlfriend decided that I wanked to much without her so she now has me in chastity.

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    naughtywildfun90 [sign in to see picture]
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    I do it at least twice a day, he does it at least 4 times a week,i dont mind as long as im still getting the same love and attention.Being open about it in a relationship is healthy. i honestly believeit helps the relationship xx

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    BlueBelle62 [sign in to see picture]
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    (Love it, I never tell my husband how much the shoes cost and ive had them for ages LOL) Everything else I tell him. Your post just made me laugh.

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    Kelbel82 [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my OH don't live together and there are obviously moments of need where there is no choice but to entertain yourself.......No secrets, as long as I get a juicy pic or send him one it's absolutely fine......also adds to the excitement...........LOL

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    Katherine* [sign in to see picture]
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    ME and my OH do it all the time, weather were with each other or not, but he does enjoy the naughty pics i send him while he at work

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    chuckybomcc [sign in to see picture]
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    I try to encourage my OH to do it more than she does . I get off on the thought

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    xxfidgetxx [sign in to see picture]
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    Naaa I don't mind at all how often my OH does it. As long as I get to watch or join in...

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    Miss-C [sign in to see picture]
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    Both do it and both know about it. It doesnt bother me at all sometimes we maturbate alone other times together, at the minute its mostly on webcam because we're long distance for a bit. I think its fun it leads to sexy talk, can heat things up in the bedroom and increasesyour sex drive so good all round i think.

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