• newbe wanting advise!! pretty please :)

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    lushlush25 [sign in to see picture]
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    hi im new to all this and wanting some opinions on toys, and other stuff! im into everything and willing to try all and at 25 im actually rather new to it all. whats the best toys out there for clit stimulation? and butt fun? and what advise would you give to someone who needs inpiration in the bedroom department? xxx

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    ShaftMaster [sign in to see picture]
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    Hahaha, welcome to the forum, I can see you're eager (which is a good thing), but those are some pretty big questions. Best advice I can give you, is to just be open minded, try new things, and see what you like!

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    Again, definitely a hard question to give a precise answer too, the best thing you can do is experiment and buy several toys that aim to do different things. One of our favourites so far is the Lovehoney Magic Wand and attachments, highly recommended, but it is powerful and unlike your average toy! Other than that, like Avrielle says, try a few items at the the cheaper end of the scale until you find out what you like and don't like. Have fun!

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    Hi welcome.

    As the others have said, I don't think there is a simple answer to the vibe question. I would suggest you consider what you need it to do/be. For example, do you live in a shared house and need it to be quiet, do you want to be able to use it in the bath/shower (waterproof), do you just want clit stimulation or would you want to use it internally too (size), do you need it to store easily (size, shape), etc then just have a look through the catagories and see what you like the look of and see if it fits your need. I would agree with choose something on the lower end of the price scale.

    Anal is slightly easier. Start small and buy lube.

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    Hey LushLush25,

    It might be worth checking out this Buyer's Guide 'How to Choose Your First Sex Toy' if you're unsure about where to start and what you're after in terms power, stimulation and discretion.

    As always our lovely community members make some fab points - the BASIC Sex Toy range is a great place to start, and there's no doubt that lube is one of the best things you can use to enhance your sex life.

    Hope this helps,

    Gem x

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    First step... get a rabbit! They're the ultimate for clit stimulation and internal stimulation. Can't go wrong! I'd recommend

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12292 or http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14099

    For butt fun try...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053

    it's fantastic for beginners and feels great! Have a look around at what you fancy, read the reviews and get ordering :) x

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    Get a Happy Rabbit - they're out today and they're fab! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19166 you can see our detailed review with more photos and stuff here http://acoupleofwankers.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/review-lovehoney-g-spot-happy-rabbit.html on our sex toy review blog.

    We've recently bought the Tracey Cox Silicone Anal Beads, they'd be a great toy for you to start with some anal play http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16528 - and of course they are body safe and easy to clean as they're silicone. You do have to be careful with jelly toys as they have chemicals in called phalates which are potentially harmful, also they don't last very long and when they start to degrade (which they do) they cause a horrible burning sensation (which I can vouch for). Best to pay that little bit extra and invest in good quality silicone toys :-) or at least check that the product is phalate-free.

    If you fancied a dildo, why not try one from Lovehoney's glass range? They give you a really different sensation, they're reasonably cheap and again completely body-safe.

    If you just want a cheap bullet vibe the Lovehoney Powerful Pocket Vibrator http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17063http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17063 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20778

    Hope this helps - any further questions feel free to ask.

    Lucy xx

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    acoupleofwankers [sign in to see picture]
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    ^^ sorry, for some reason one of my sentences went missing from above.

    After recommending the Powerful Pocket rocket I said:

    If you want something a bit fancier why not try the We-vibe Tango http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20778 it's beautifully designed, has powerful vibrations and best of all is rechargeable!

    Lucy x

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    lushlush25 wrote:

    hi im new to all this and wanting some opinions on toys, and other stuff! im into everything and willing to try all and at 25 im actually rather new to it all. whats the best toys out there for clit stimulation? and butt fun? and what advise would you give to someone who needs inpiration in the bedroom department? xxx

    Hi Lushlush, take time to be yourself and explore what feels good to you. Everyone has the right to be happy and a good sex life is the bases to a happy life. All of the vibes on here are a great start. If you think you would like to explore anal play and you are new to it first find a good lube. Any of the liquid range a good. Then start small and build up. Maybe something on a remote with a wire so you don't loose it. Enjoy finding your new sexuality.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22203

    Something like this. Good for clit stimulation too.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13181 and this is a great anal lube too.

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    I agree with this quide http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/buyers-guide/how-to-choose-your-first-sex-toy/

    Personally I am againt rabbit as first sex toy, as rabbits are huge miss and hit. Lot of women love them, lot of women does not. Also rabbit is one of the huge miss and hits even if you like them, as you often have to try several to find the one for you.

    I do have the suggested Happy Rabbit and well... It works for me, but the clitoral part needs fidling with before I actually get it round my clitoris. The arm is too long and the ears too. Plus is a bigger rabbit in term of size and I guess it could scare someone, who is new to toys and does not feel like trying bigger toys, off.

    My advice would be something smaller. Either a bullet vibe or something simple such as http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25883 or in this shape http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7

    I would choose something simple. but preferably multispeed, if you are not sure what you yet like. If you think larger surface may be for you, why not check something like http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28041 or http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21149

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    Do you guys realise this thread is 20 months old?

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    Sum Sub wrote:

    Do you guys realise this thread is 20 months old?

    oh lol well. I dont check dates. Only what is on the top of my page.

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    For Clint I would recommend the lovehoney magic wand!

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    Lollipop ;) wrote:

    For Clint !

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    Lollipop ;) wrote:

    For clit I would recommend the lovehoney magic wand!

    Sorry lol

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    truegrace wrote:

    Lollipop ;) wrote:

    For Clint !

    love a spot of autocorrect!!

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    Sum Sub wrote:

    Do you guys realise this thread is 20 months old?

    Subby well done only you would notice that.lol

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    lushlush25 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks guys. And thanks gentle giant for bumping this thread again, because actually now that my situation has dramatically changed..I'm going to find this more useful now more then ever lol!! Xx

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