• Best way to achieve Orgasm?

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    Mr.Smith [sign in to see picture]
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    Morning everybody, What is the best way to achieve orgasm for ladies is it clit or vaginal stimulation ? And Gents in which way do you prefer to orgasm?

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    LauraP [sign in to see picture]
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    Its different for every woman on the planet. For me its a combination of clitorial and vaginal stimulation whilst being relaxed enough to be able to achieve it.

    I can't get off if I'm thinking too much.

    I need to clear my head. I've often been asked what I'm think about when I orgasm and the answer is honestly nothing. I'm enjoying the physical sensation that I can never get unless I'm not thinking. I like letting my body taking over. I love every muscle in my body responding.

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with Laura

    Youre not thinking of anything whilst climaxing .. just enjoying the moment.

    Ive never been able to orgasm vaginally, kinda feel like i might be missing out. Maybe i need to buy more toys and practise a little to achieve this.

    So for me it is clitoral orgasms.. and boy, they are very strong and very very good.

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    Mr.Smith [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovely response LauraP

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    LauraP [sign in to see picture]
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    The one piece of advice I will give is don't put pressure on it. Wanting to achieve orgasm to make your partner happy never works.

    Its something that happens because I let it. Whilst providing the stimulation that is needed to get us off ultimately it is the woman that controls whether she orgasms or not. I've never been able to orgasm on demand though I can fake it like a porn star if I have to.

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    In a different way to the last time

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    naughtywildfun90 [sign in to see picture]
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    The best for me is vaginally with hubby. the quickest is when he uses his fingers, i can squirt within minutes then xx

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    I'm with laura too. I have to really concentrate hard and totally let myself go with the feelings before I can orgasm and always through clitoral stimulaton. I also feel abit like Dee that I'm missing out on something. Need to practice abit more. Stangely If i'm on my own and need a quick orgasm I can do it in 5mins but with a partner it can be half an hour (at which point he has a numb tongue) ;0)

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    2nd Chance T wrote:

    I'm with laura too. I have to really concentrate hard and totally let myself go with the feelings before I can orgasm and always through clitoral stimulaton. I also feel abit like Dee that I'm missing out on something. Need to practice abit more. Stangely If i'm on my own and need a quick orgasm I can do it in 5mins but with a partner it can be half an hour (at which point he has a numb tongue) ;0)

    lol when Im in the mood i can do it myself in about 30 seconds or last indefinitely...usually depends if im going to work or not

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    LauraP wrote:

    The one piece of advice I will give is don't put pressure on it. Wanting to achieve orgasm to make your partner happy never works.

    Its something that happens because I let it. Whilst providing the stimulation that is needed to get us off ultimately it is the woman that controls whether she orgasms or not. I've never been able to orgasm on demand though I can fake it like a porn star if I have to.

    :) aww I was thinking speed was the key! Humm I sould slow down and enjoy it more?

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    alwayssingle:( wrote:

    :) aww I was thinking speed was the key! Humm I sould slow down and enjoy it more?

    I just know what works for me, everyone is different.

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    kinkycop [sign in to see picture]
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    I would give doing it slow a go! I had done it slow before, I think it was more enjoyable I remember one toy I couldn't get on with it was pocket mastabutor thingy, I couldn't cum how hard or fast I went, but when I finish by hand I cummed like never before!

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    Clitoral for me, I've never actually come without some form of clitoral stimulation, no matter how hard I've tried, I guess we're all wired slightly differently.

    As for time, I'm usually quicker when I'm alone... I don't really know why, because externally at least I feel completely 100% comfortable with Alex, but maybe I'm just able to relax into it a bit more when I'm by myself.

    Lucy xx

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    acoupleofwankers wrote:

    Clitoral for me, I've never actually come without some form of clitoral stimulation, no matter how hard I've tried, I guess we're all wired slightly differently.

    As for time, I'm usually quicker when I'm alone...

    Lucy xx

    Intresting? I am a quick one too!

    But when I did had a lady that was very friendly yes she wasn't bother about laying on my bed with me, when using the laptop! we started of move closer, then her arm around me in a formal way, then her arm kept going lower! until she kissed me the kept her hand down my trousers!

    yes it feel nice, but I would say the odd part about it, the rush to my head was unbelieveable! I did had lots of stamina... can anyone explain why? adrenline... I would say slow play then was good :)

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