• Sore lady bits after long sessions?

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    Mr-Mrs-Sexy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello,


    Basically I was wondering if you girls have any tips on preventing my OH's lady bits getting sore after prolonged periods of sexual play.


    I like to spend a lot of time down there and am generally quite rough (she prefers it) but after about 30mins to 1hr she can’t take anymore which is a shame for me as I like to "annihilate her" (sorry could think of a better phrase)

    any adive to make her last longer?

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    Totally agree will hella

    Lube lube and more lube don't be shy re - apply lol

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    GymJunki3 [sign in to see picture]
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    Re Lube-when it's sore, add some more :)

    As Hellkat says the more the better! You might want to consider something silicone based as it doesn't dry out as quickly as water based lube.

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    Catnip [sign in to see picture]
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    Lube, lube and more lube! lol x

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    Lady.Gasm.X [sign in to see picture]
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    Lube! Sudocreme works for after! :) x

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    beasically has been said, lube

    I also sometimes need him to stop still inside me for a few seconds before penetration so i can get used to it

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    occhiverdi [sign in to see picture]
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    Lady.Gasm.X wrote:

    Lube! Sudocreme works for after! :) x

    Totally agree! I think I use more sudocreme than my 2 year old nephew!!

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    LauraP [sign in to see picture]
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    Lubrication lol same as everyone else but also go a bit gentle in the days after the long session in order to give it time to heal.

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    Mr-Mrs-Sexy [sign in to see picture]
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    thanks for the help, i never really thought about lube as most the time my OH's squirts so is plenty lubricated from that but i guess that would dry up quite quickly, also nice tip on the silcone instead of water based

    thanks xx

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    careful which lube you use if you use condoms....they can disintegrate rather quickly

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    GymJunki3 [sign in to see picture]
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    Agreed - mainly oil or petroleum based lube such as Vaseline is to be avoided with condoms. Both silicone and water based are fine though.

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    in our early day when we were at it 24/7 it was me that got sore horrible burning sensation all down the urethra and a hardon that hurt and wouldnt go away ended up having to put it under the cold tap for about 10 mins, anyone else had this?

    lubes wernt really talked about then.

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    Lady.Gasm.X [sign in to see picture]
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    occhiverdi wrote:

    Lady.Gasm.X wrote:

    Lube! Sudocreme works for after! :) x

    Totally agree! I think I use more sudocreme than my 2 year old nephew!!

    I used it one night when I had a reaction to a condom with a naughty conquest >:), I wore the cream overnight and the swelling was gone by the time I woke up. Works wonders!

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    I started shaving because Mrs G became sore "externally"...........it does help on the external lady bits we found but she also has a small psoriasis problem

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    lilac_vix [sign in to see picture]
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    she needs to make she she's not dehydrated as well.

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    Gwennie [sign in to see picture]
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    I find a cold flannel applied afterwards helps with any soreness from any roughness ^^

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    mrmissspunkle [sign in to see picture]
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    Yep, Sudocreme if you are feeling sore...

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    kc. [sign in to see picture]
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    Lube and even more lube as others are saying. My wife squirts too, which really does get her wet and of course is a hell of a turn on both for her and me but still use lots of lube, especially when using very large toys, fisting and anal play.

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    Justlikerabbits [sign in to see picture]
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    Not too sure if it's been said yet but I would recommend using LUBE :)

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    personally I have heard that lube can be a good idea. I am not sure though.

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