• How much sex are we really having?

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    2nd Chance T [sign in to see picture]
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    I would really like help in finding out how often we are all having sex, my ex and my new partner were horny all the time and would have sex everyday if they could. For me it's so much more a in the mood thing at certain times of the month. I can put myself in the mood by watching porn which I do enjoy doing. I find it really strange that one day I want to rip his clothes off and the next can't think of anything worse.

    Is it just me???????????

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    Catnip [sign in to see picture]
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    Not just you hun!!

    Its all to do with hormones, or so i've been told!

    Somedays i look at my OH and think "my god if i don't have you now i'll explode!" and on other days i can look at him and think " if he just looks at me,i swear, i will wipe those eyebrows right of his face!!!"

    Its not just you!! x

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    Absolutely not you!!

    Catnip, very funny .. thought it was only me that thought that of my OH.

    Like me though 2nd chance, lots of things start me off, porn being one of them.

    My husband is similar in that he can have his `off' days when hes not in the mood either. Its not just a female thing!!

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    2nd Chance T [sign in to see picture]
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    Lol love it Catnip xx

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    Naked_butler [sign in to see picture]
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    common thing with women

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    Rachey 28 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yup it's common, at the start of the week me and the hubby where at it like rabbits it lasted about 4-5 days (the horney mood not the sex lol) then today i can't b bothered xx

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    Naked_butler wrote:

    common thing with women

    I disagree, not a common thing with women at all! Some men are the same but probably not hormonal but more down to not in the mood or too tired!

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    Lady.Gasm.X [sign in to see picture]
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    I manage to convince my man into bed most days, but when he is really tired it's a no go. My libido is always sky high and my OH's is non existant. So Naked Butler, I think you may be wrong there. Although depending on what medication I am taking I can feel 'not in the mood'

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    Naked_butler [sign in to see picture]
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    true but more common with women from my gfs convos with her mates

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    Lady.Gasm.X [sign in to see picture]
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    I know what you mean by this - as women need to be switched on mentally and physically where as a lot of men just need to have a rock on

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    sashastream [sign in to see picture]
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    I have a very high libido and am constantly nagging my oh for sex he gets very annoyed with me at times and says go play with your toys babe I cant be bothered ,we do it about twice a week sometimes 3 if he hasnt had a hard week at work.

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    mr_man [sign in to see picture]
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    At least daily if not more if you're counting solo sex as well! ;)

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    Cuddly Hubby [sign in to see picture]
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    It varies a lot for my wife and me. My wife has the steadier libido, but she's happy with sex a couple of times a week. I'm much more up and down. If I'm stressed or my brain is preoccupied then I may have little or no interest for a week or more. When I have sex on my mind, though, I want it bad! My wife has become used to me pouncing on her first thing in the morning -- or even in the middle of the night -- because I'm feeling really horny. Sometimes this happens even when we've had sex the previous evening. Fortunately, my wife says that she doesn't mind too much even when I interrupt her sleep -- she says that it amuses her to see me so worked up.

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    Feast or a flood, I work away but on average I would say about 3 times a week. It varies but Ive never been home for a week when we didnt

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    Rugbyman [sign in to see picture]
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    A couple of times a week and more in the holidays when we are less tired from work

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    lilac_vix [sign in to see picture]
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    I am definately not getting enough ! lol my current OH works shifts that clash with my work placement so only get to see him maybe once a fortnight. If not for that I reckon if would be a couple of nights/mornings a week as we don't live together and are keeping it casual for now. I am a couple of times a day kinda girl when I'm living with someone.

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    MrJay [sign in to see picture]
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    Not as much as I'd like. I have a much higher sex drive than my OH and find myself horny much more frequently than she does. It occasionally gets a little frustrating but it's never caused us problems.

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    Bladebabe [sign in to see picture]
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    Not enough! God we used to do it every night, no matter how tired I was but over the last few years, changes of circumstances, health etc, it's about once a week now, shame cos it's great when we do but not as brilliant as it used to be, maybe it's the age difference?

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    Smoothballs82 [sign in to see picture]
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    my mrs has a really low sex drive so we work on a poor once a week thing. although she does do me a few days inbetween, usually a hand job and she does let me masturbate when i like. it does very much frustrate me but oh well. n on the other hand i have female friends with high sex drives n the male doesnt. so its all swings n roundabouts.

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    bemmyscot [sign in to see picture]
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    If Smoothballs82 mrs has a low sex drive, then my wifes is non existent. If im lucky its 3 or 4 times a year but only If I instigate it. It has dropped this low as theer is only so many times that you can take that she is too tired or I have cum to bed too late etc. I know its swings and roundabouts and that there are women whos hubbys etc have a low sex drive, but I dont thin im asking too much for 12 times a year, Or am I?

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