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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    hi i have just purchased my first ever dildo and was very excited when it arrived as you could probably imagine.. the problem was i couldnt manage to get it inside me was just wondering if this is common thing or if anybody can give me some advice as i am desperate to use it

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    Scarlet Couple [sign in to see picture]
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    how big is it? did you get a lube too?

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    Lube is certainly a must, preferably anal lube.

    Relax and don't force yourself. Is it bigger than you are use to or softer? Neither help with getting it inside.

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    relax, lube and experiment with different positions.

    I find anal easier if im in a doggy position rather than on my back, while some people find squatting onto a toy easier.

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    acoupleofwankers [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I find the easiest position for insertion to be lying on my side. Try and insert as you slowly breathe out. Use lots of lube. A hot bath can often help me relax as well. And yes, it is perfectly normal not to be able to insert something at first, come back to it another time if its not working rather than just getting frustrated.

    Alex.

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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    thanks for the advice

    it was this one i purchased http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13995

    im going to try relax more and give myself more time to use the toy i think. i will let you know how my conquest goes

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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    yes i did purchase some lube also x

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    Good luck and have fun!

    Alex.

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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    thanks

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    malenewbie wrote:

    thanks for the advice

    it was this one i purchased http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13995

    im going to try relax more and give myself more time to use the toy i think. i will let you know how my conquest goes

    That has quite a wide girth so thats probably it. Try warming up with a smaller toy or fingers.

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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    ye i struggled to even get the head in. how long of a warm up would you recommend

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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    today is the day i have time to use my dildo wish me luckx

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    Good luck.

    For warm up I would suggest a smaller toy or fingers for a good ten minutes until you feel 'looser'. You should almost relax around it after a few minutes, then just enjoy for a bit longer.

    Then try to bigger toy. Don't force it, if need be get a smaller toy first.

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    Good luck.

    From my small experience I would say use plenty of lube. Take your time. Start with a small toy or fingers and work up.

    Lying on my side works best for me.

    Relax dont force things and enjoy the experience.

    LMF

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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    ive got the helix im going to use first also going to take a warm bath before and take it from there fingers crossed x

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    malenewbie wrote:

    ive got the helix im going to use first also going to take a warm bath before and take it from there fingers crossed x

    Good luck. If nothing else you will be a clean boy LOL. xx

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    A warm bath is always a good step.

    Really relax before hand. Start with fingers and make sure you are fully relaxed before trying anything too big. I find doggy style position easiest, and use lots of lube.

    Don't rush it, just keep trying or try something smaller first if you're having no luck

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    malenewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    it took a while but finally sucess. started off a bit uncomfortable at first but as my body relaxed the pleasure took over it was a amazing first time dildo experience will be trying that again

    thanks for all the advice it really helped

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