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    barkis [sign in to see picture]
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    I had an FFM threesome a long time ago and it's harder work than you might think. Even though the man is going to feel like a dog with two dicks he still only has the one to work with.

    If I were to do something like that again I would think a foursome much more likely. It's easier to find a couple than that rare single female and, if it doesn't work out as well as hoped, there should be less hurt feelings and jealousy as all parties would have been doing pretty much the same thing.

    Most men seem to only want to do FFM but I would be happy enough with MMF if that's how it worked out. Don't think either is on the cards right now though.

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    barkis wrote:

    I had an FFM threesome a long time ago and it's harder work than you might think. Even though the man is going to feel like a dog with two dicks he still only has the one to work with.

    He has one dick but two hands and a tongue?? lol

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    Dee_licious333 wrote:

    barkis wrote:

    I had an FFM threesome a long time ago and it's harder work than you might think. Even though the man is going to feel like a dog with two dicks he still only has the one to work with.

    He has one dick but two hands and a tongue?? lol

    and hopefully enough co-ordination to keep them all going at once!

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    That was my problem...while i have two hands and a tongue I cant take in two persons responses and react to them at the same time.....typical man cant multitask

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    I had one. It was quite funny as the other guys leg was in plaster. She was being taken from behind by him, whilst all the time trying to maintain his balance> He looked like he was doing a Russian dance of some kind! I would definately do it again if the opportunity arrose. Good fun if you can handle the logistics and the possible mental issues of jealousy etc.. But not all threesomes need to have physical contact do they? I think just being in the same room and seeing a couple together would be just as fun. Slighty voyeuristic I know but awesome..very awesome!

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    We have had a foursome (MFMF) and a threesome (MMF) both were extremely enjoyable, but in a lot of cases the fantasy can be better than the reality. The foursome was oral and game playing no intercourse, and the threesome I watched and held the shaky camera ;)

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    we have had a few 3somes with me b/f and another male

    some were good fun where others we just didnt click with,just wanted to stify their selfs and be off ,like a bit of intimacy in a 3 some ,but wont put us off at all still carry on peforming as we both enjoy the moment and enjoy meeting other males for some extra sex fun

    how about others out there ,whaat is your opinion?

    wed like to know

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    rag doll [sign in to see picture]
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    firts time on sunday with my Boyfriend and another male who is a mutual friend. there was no sex but lots of spanking, kissing, stroking licking, Doming and subing. it just sort of happened and was great fun but perhaps it would have been better after if we had planned and talked first.

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    Better after in what way? Sometimes when things just happen it can be good but it sounds as if things were awkward after?

    if so, then maybe get him round again to chat about what happened and if it's something that you'd all like to do again, try and discuss if there's anything else you'd like to all try etc

    You should maybe chat with your bf first to gauge his reaction on what happened and if there was anything he didn't like - but it's two way - you talk to him about what you want as well

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    rag doll [sign in to see picture]
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    indeed, beter as in less akward and that didnt leave our friend feeling bad about it (cos of the girl he is chasing) and me confused about liking it and bad about not thinking of how our friend would feel as ive been encouraging him with the other girl. my boyfriend loved it.

    we have all talked extencivly. we all enjoyed it byt friend wants to forget it and has asked that the topic isnt brought up again. i want to do it again but am very particular about who with. boyfriend would love to do it again and not to fussed about who with.

    all good advice though @Minxbaby. thank you

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    DaveMg [sign in to see picture]
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    Had a few with a married couple who were experienced in the scene. Watched him servicing her, he watched me doing her then we had her together. Lots of fun with sex toys and watching porn etc. Very enjoyable times and thoroughly recommended!

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    As lots of you know we are swingers.my advice is if your looking for threesomes, or looking for other couples or female ,is to go to swingers club as there you dont have the pressure to play where you can just sit and chat without having to play,just to get the feel of swinging,chat with other swingers and only then if you feel going further and play then thats done to you..we have spent many a night just sitting and chatting to other swinger without playing or if you do go looking on sites like fabswingers again my advice is to meet up socaily first,,for drink chat in pub and if you do click arrange another night for your fun and dont be pressured into playing on first meet

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    Minxbaby [sign in to see picture]
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    Good advice Linda

    Our problem is, when we do want a little fun and we do it in the UK, we always make sure that the couple/single etc knows that it's for that night and not a get to know you social before another night of play.

    We haven't really been to many clubs, although we try to know where there is a club in case things go tits up ie they don't show/can't come last minute etc

    Fabswingers is the best site we have found so far and it's free you can pay to support and get a few extra things but unlike quite a lot of other sites, you can email etc for free

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    Minxbaby wrote:

    Good advice Linda

    Our problem is, when we do want a little fun and we do it in the UK, we always make sure that the couple/single etc knows that it's for that night and not a get to know you social before another night of play.

    We haven't really been to many clubs, although we try to know where there is a club in case things go tits up ie they don't show/can't come last minute etc

    Fabswingers is the best site we have found so far and it's free you can pay to support and get a few extra things but unlike quite a lot of other sites, you can email etc for free

    We're the same. We always keep it as "strictly business" so to speak. I don't need new friends.

    We've been talking about clubs but don't know many in London (risk of bumping into folk)

    Fabs is great, we've used it many times for couples. We do tend to find men on craigslist to be honest.

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    We've had a few FFM threesomes and they've been varied .

    The first girl was absolutely stunning, like out of this world gorgeous but she just didn't seem to be into the FF side of things and it all felt really akward.

    The second was incredible, same age, amazing sex drive and we had a weekend of amazing fun.

    The more recent lady we've been meeting is a little older than us (and happilly married). The sex is quite intimate and toys and stuff have never entered into it. In fact, we're seeing her tonight.

    Sometimes I think we both wish for someone more our age so we can go a little longer/harder but the couples scene has never really appealled. We're on Fab, its been kind of great but it now seems to be tailing off a bit.

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    Any straight blokes tried a bi MMF threesome?

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    Hen Night Toad wrote:

    Any straight blokes tried a bi MMF threesome?

    me and my partner did this. well, there wasnt any M on M but damn i wish i'd made them kiss. i dont really like the idea of doing FFM i think i would be gelous then. i preferer being pampered by my boys...and making the other do stuff he doesnt want whilst Master Doms me

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    Hen Night Toad wrote:

    Any straight blokes tried a bi MMF threesome?

    OH and I are thinking of going down this route. We've had plenty of MMF with no MM contact. As time has gone on the idea of him recieving and giving oral has become more of a thing for group fun.

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    sxe_couple21 wrote:

    We've had a few FFM threesomes and they've been varied .

    The first girl was absolutely stunning, like out of this world gorgeous but she just didn't seem to be into the FF side of things and it all felt really akward.

    The second was incredible, same age, amazing sex drive and we had a weekend of amazing fun.

    The more recent lady we've been meeting is a little older than us (and happilly married). The sex is quite intimate and toys and stuff have never entered into it. In fact, we're seeing her tonight.

    Sometimes I think we both wish for someone more our age so we can go a little longer/harder but the couples scene has never really appealled. We're on Fab, its been kind of great but it now seems to be tailing off a bit.

    That seems to happen. First couple we met were younger and the girl was about 19... OH was in his element.

    As for the fun..... having a fem who is not into playing with another fem puts a dampner on the moments especially if they are promoting themselves as bicurious.

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    TX_UK [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes. A young couple and they were very good company. I got to know them as friends first so had no problems being aroused in front of another man!

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