If you could spend a day what would you do without cheating

 If you were in a relationship but you had a chance to be with another person what sort of things would you do without it turning to cheating on your partner?

For me for instance there is one person i have in mind if i was in her house and she was up for it i would say how about:

Swapping Underwear

Having some kind of fun with peeing

Talking Dirty 

Naughty Picture swapping

Doing the washing up naked i could wash up naked she could put the dishes away naked.

Have a nice walk outside but be commando

Masturbate but so we dont see each other bits bit like when i was younger my hands would be down my trousers and i would masturbate that way with getting it out,So the same would have to go for this other person she could do it so i wouldn't able to see her parts.

No body contact what so ever couldn't live with myself if we touched each others body 

Can you not cheat emotionally/mentally WJ?

Just a thought fella!

None of the above for me. More likely cook them a nice meal and stay up late in the garden with a log fire going and chatting with wine until the early hours. But could that be classed as cheating?

SG

Ive done it...met a girl on an overnight train Paris Milan, spent the day walking round Milan eating nice food etc in the end she took her train onto Genoa and I went to Berggamo. she was 21 and gorgeous I was 31 and a new dad ...we gave each other a hug wished each other well and went our seperate ways....no echange of phone numbers or addresses just a nice time

That's nice Gunther!
A good memory to think back on too.

sexy get  we were sharing a cabin with another french lady ....blathering away in french I didnt even realise she was english until the old dear went to sleep. LOL strange experience sleeping in a train with a beautiful girl youve only known for about 2 hrs. She picked the cabin because of the other woman there thank  gord that woman chose the cabin I was in (they only sleep 3). Hell of a nice girl she was but being a student she was skint...it was nice to spoil her a bit. LOL I dont think I even asked her name.

mamanda i suggest you go here for your illicit affaire

http://www.fassbender-rausch.com/

Thats what Mrs G said last week LMAO

Mamanda wrote:

gunther wrote:

mamanda i suggest you go here for your illicit affaire

http://www.fassbender-rausch.com/

OMG!!!!! HEAVEN HAS FINALLY COME TO EARTH!!!

 Throw diet out of the window, and grab my german text book  

PJ   klick on the US/GB flag and it changes to english but hand your cards and valuables to a responsible adult first lol

I've gotta be honest, I'd still count a lot of those things as cheating.

I was having a chat with my partner recently about 'what constitutes cheating' as I was going to take a part in a porn film (not a sexual role) and then write a piece on pornography behind the lens. He wasn't happy about it at all, so the piece has been ditched. He wasn't at all comfortable with the voyeuristic aspect, and that was porn.

I can see where he's coming from, but I personally would be much more hurt if he did the things described in your post. I expect he would be too! Some things are better left in the realm of fantasy, for me anyhoo.

Hella =wise words

I think about 10% of my fantasies would actualy be enjoyable if we tried them lol

Mamanda wrote:

Forget the diet, forget the textbook, forget my partner and child, I'M MOVING THERE!!! LMFAO!!

Mamanda its on Charlotte strasse which is next to Friedrichstrasse (Berlins Regent street, some serious retail therapy can be had there

As my girlfriend and I are long distance, and she is the only girl I have slept with, the topic of an open relationship is something that we have discussed. Assuming I had talked about it with my gf, and knew I had her permission, I guess (can't say I'd actually know unless I was in that situation) I'd be up for nakedness, probably playing, foreplay and oral, but I still wouldn't go all the way. Even if my gf allowed it, full sex is still something I'd keep just between us.

I would consider the situations proposed by the original poster to be cheating if their partner had not agreed to them.

ShaftMaster wrote:

the topic of an open relationship is something that we have discussed.

If you have the agreement and understanding of your other half then nothing can be considered cheating but the impression I got from the original poster was that their partner would not know. My apologies if I have that wrong.

Kinkygentleman wrote:

for all you know they may not even be the gender they claim to be, then would that count?

Then... what if you had cybersex, thinking it was some randomer, but later discovered it was your other half you were cybering with? Is that still cheating? :)

I'm going to stop now because I'm probably boring everyone. Including myself.

No, these are interesting questions. Or else I'm just as boring as you seem to think you are . . .

Kinkygentleman wrote:

does cybersex count as cheating?

I personally consider cyber-sex to be cheating but it is not my opinion that matters.

Anyone undecided should merely ask their partner for clarification, if it is not cheating then there wont be a problem!