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    gunther wrote:

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    Sharry just as rape is little to do with sex so is the needs prostitutes satisfy...if you met one they are just as accustomed to being an agaony aunt or a shoulder to cry on

    I get what you're trying to say, but I honestly wouldn't say that to anyone who has been a victim of rape and/or sexual abuse.

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    on the contrary, people involved in rape counciling stress this point, sex is about love and enjoyment rape isnt but I think this isnt the forum to discuss.

    The point I was making is (and I am an expert here) guys seperated from their lover confuse sex with company. I spend a small fortune on my social life just so I dont feel lonely and have some female conversation to keep me sane. It isnt better than sex but my wife fully understands and knows the ladies involved. Women look after married men who respect them in the hope that a woman will do the same if their guy is in the same situation.

    I understand the point you are trying to make, but personally I don't think you needed a rape analogy to make it.

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    It takes two to tango.

    How many sex workers are married or in a long term relationship?

    I've never strayed since we have been together - some 30 plus years- wouldn't contemplate it.

    But sex workers have to make a living and should be afforded a safe working environment like everyone else.

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    If something is legal and all parties are consenting - including your partner - then why not?

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    kendo wrote:

    But sex workers have to make a living and should be afforded a safe working environment like everyone else.

    I once had a mexican woman begging to give me a bj, then she explained her son was sick and needed an operation....I gave her the money and bought her a drink, I cant take advantage like that but also I cant sort out a whole country's social problems. There were some tragic cases there

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    sharry wrote:

    Why do women (more so than cheated on men in my experience) always assume it's something they've done/not done? It could well be that he (or she if vice versa) is just a cheating rat.

    But my husband isnt the type to cheat and he isnt a Rat Sharry but there would be a reason why he took to visiting a prostitute. So... like i said, i would have to contemplate why things had got to this stage. Perhaps we arent discussing sex, perhaps i am not being intimate with him, perhaps i dont consider his feelings .. ever etc etc. There are lots of reasons.

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    Dee sometimes we are seperated for months so its not a normal; situation

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    I've visited massage parlours on a number of occasions.I'm widowed and after a year and a half of being on my own don't feel ready for a proper relationship,so I can't see anything wrong with paying for it.When the grl provides a girlfriend experience with lot of kissing and cuddling it makes you feel great,but when the girl appears bored and mechanical it can be horrible and quite depressing.

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    gunther wrote:

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    We all pay in one way or another which means we all charge! We're all whores hehe

    lol Doll poet a bit controversial that one a man couldnt get away with saying the same, I look at it like this a man basically has (or had) to prove he could put the bacon on the table, its romantic to live on love but gets a bit tiring when the bread snappers come along.

    did i say bread snappers I meant beautiful bouncing bundles of joy of course

    I am a man!

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    oops i just saw doll and thought woman...im not a habitual reader of profiles maybe i should be lol

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    Hehe, no problem Gunther

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    To answer your questions, I would not mind if OH admited that he has visited one of these girls in the past. I don't mind them. They are only doing their job - but they are pricey, aren't they?

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    Cuddly Hubby wrote:

    I seriously considered enlisting the services of a prostitute when I was in my mid-twenties, long-term single and still a virgin. I had needs, and it seemed like a logical and relatively safe way of fulfilling them. I didn't have a clue, though, how to find one that I would trust (cards in 'phone boxes didn't seem a good option!) and I wasn't going to ask anyone else about it so, in those pre-Internet days, that was the end of the idea.

    You should have come to me. I would serve you without charge :)

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    I have a huge issue with this profession where people are in danger,being forced to do something they do not want to do, are put in dangerous situations .
    I use to work with vunerable teens and the stuff I saw around this profession is shocking.

    Now if the workers are in a safe, clean, environment with access to all the tools to to their job safely and regular medical checks, security to ensure they are safe and this a personal choice then I have no issues.

    As for my OH using their services I would go crazy now beacuse if he pays or not he is still doing the dirty on me and would not stand for it...ever!

    But if it was something he had done in the past and had kept himself safe I would not have an issue with it.

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    smirnoff09 wrote:

    I have a huge issue with this profession where people are in danger,being forced to do something they do not want to do, are put in dangerous situations .
    I use to work with vunerable teens and the stuff I saw around this profession is shocking.

    Now if the workers are in a safe, clean, environment with access to all the tools to to their job safely and regular medical checks, security to ensure they are safe and this a personal choice then I have no issues.

    I agree completely. I've seen/read stuff on prostitution, drugs, even dog restaurants in korea, and they all came to the same conclusion. The worst part about all of them is the fact that their illegality has driven them underground where they can't be policed, and anything can, and often does happen.

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    Agree with Smirnoff, has to be 100% the sex workers decision. It's not easy to ever know if it is though. I suspect in the majority of cases it is not 100% their decision.....

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    mrsorgasmatron wrote:

    You should have come to me. I would serve you without charge :)

    Could that apply here as well?

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    illumine wrote:

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    sw666 most men go to a prostitute because they are actually lonely, I know I did lol I dont see much difference between a hooker and a cam girl to be honest

    insulting!!! a cam girl is blessed with the fact that she does not have to deal with these men- all the lying cheating scum, the druggies, the diseased and the lonely (and of course the normal and polite guys) face to face. I would never allow omebody to pay to have intercourse or anything near with me. Whereas I make a LOT of money 'seducing' men online. But i dont have to do anything i see as degrading, dangerous to myself and my health, illegal or particularly time consuming. There is a LOT of difference between a cam girl and an escort or 'hooker'

    I agree with you on this Illumine!!

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    Dee_licious333 wrote:

    illumine wrote:

    gunther wrote:

    sw666 most men go to a prostitute because they are actually lonely, I know I did lol I dont see much difference between a hooker and a cam girl to be honest

    insulting!!! a cam girl is blessed with the fact that she does not have to deal with these men- all the lying cheating scum, the druggies, the diseased and the lonely (and of course the normal and polite guys) face to face. I would never allow omebody to pay to have intercourse or anything near with me. Whereas I make a LOT of money 'seducing' men online. But i dont have to do anything i see as degrading, dangerous to myself and my health, illegal or particularly time consuming. There is a LOT of difference between a cam girl and an escort or 'hooker'

    I agree with you on this Illumine!!

    As much as there are similarities, I'd say a cam girl is more like a (interactive) porn star, than prostitute??

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    I must admit I have visited well over a hundred sex workers of both sexes in my life.

    I had a long term relationship with one woman that lasted 14 years. She got started on the game after her employer got her pregnant and then gave her the push. All I can say is that it's a tough life, and may involve physical danger. It's also a life that's very difficult to get out of.

    I have quite a few opinions about this subject, but I'm not going to air them here.

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    illumine wrote:

    ShaftMaster wrote:

    Dee_licious333 wrote:

    illumine wrote:

    gunther wrote:

    sw666 most men go to a prostitute because they are actually lonely, I know I did lol I dont see much difference between a hooker and a cam girl to be honest

    insulting!!! a cam girl is blessed with the fact that she does not have to deal with these men- all the lying cheating scum, the druggies, the diseased and the lonely (and of course the normal and polite guys) face to face. I would never allow omebody to pay to have intercourse or anything near with me. Whereas I make a LOT of money 'seducing' men online. But i dont have to do anything i see as degrading, dangerous to myself and my health, illegal or particularly time consuming. There is a LOT of difference between a cam girl and an escort or 'hooker'

    I agree with you on this Illumine!!

    As much as there are similarities, I'd say a cam girl is more like a (interactive) porn star, than prostitute??

    yes, thats the way i see it! a porn star that the ordinary guy can interact with

    We are all entitled to an opinion mine hasnt changed at all. I find some comments laughable.

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