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    1 Guys have you ever visited one, would you admit that you had to others

    2 Ladies what do you think of them and guys who use them. If you found out you OH had visited one what would you do

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    In answer to your second question I'd have to say if it was whilst we were together (as opposed to before we met) I'd be very, very mad. He'd be out on his ear. I'd be the same whether it was a working girl or just casual sex without money involved, even worse if he had feelings for her. I'd see it as a violation of trust and certainly be concerned about the health implications. Condoms aren't infaliable.

    That's me personally. My OH knows that I'd see it in such a way and if he went with a prostitute even knowing this then there's no excuse. Same would be true the other way around.

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    if i was in a relationship and my partner visited a sex worker then it'd be the end of it

    but personaly i feel that sex work should be legalised and decriminalised. (while prostitution isn't illegal soliciting is, so it forces people underground) there would be less violence and more saftey for both workers and the people using their services

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    sw666 many guys visit hookers and dont have sex as such. I believe there is a bit of dreaming in the UK on this issue. the sex industry is big and growing yet no one ever visits them lol

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    lol mamanda I wouldnt expect him to tell you lol

    Not that he is of course what if you found out he had before you met?

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    gunther wrote:

    sw666 many guys visit hookers and dont have sex as such

    sorry i don't understand this statement.

    sex for me includes all sexual contact, including blow jobs and non penatrative stuff.

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    sw666 most men go to a prostitute because they are actually lonely, I know I did lol I dont see much difference between a hooker and a cam girl to be honest

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    Hella in Germany prostitution is legal, if a man comes on too strong to a woman or is over suggestive the women can and do tell them to go to the Puff Strasse (slang for red light district) Its noticeable how more civilized they are even when drunk in a night club

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    gunther wrote:

    sw666 most men go to a prostitute because they are actually lonely, I know I did lol I dont see much difference between a hooker and a cam girl to be honest

    this says a lot more about the person than anything else.

    and the term "hooker" is actually pretty offensive and degrading, thats why the term "sex worker" is usually used.

    and there's a difference in the fact that the prostitue is physically there and has contact with you, where a cam girl does not.

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    sw 666 i only used hooker so as not to repeat prostitute actors in porn are sex workers and so are cam girls.

    heres a moral dilema

    what is worse a wealthy man man who visits a prostitute for baby role play or an unemployed man who consistently spends what his wife earns on phone sex leaving the kids hungry.

    lol in china I once paid a prostitute £40 ( a days wages for an engineer) to wash my shirts what a laugh that was.

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    If my husband had visited one i would wonder why our relationship had got to that stage. I would begin to look at myself and think about what i could do to improve things. But i hope i would be able to discuss it with him. Of course i would be mad, upset, feel betrayed but if it was something he could give up then there would be hope for us!!

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    Wise words dee an affair is much much more dangerous

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    sharry wrote:

    I'd be the same whether it was a working girl or just casual sex without money involved, even worse if he had feelings for her.

    In that situation I have to admit that I'd probably feel better if there were feelings. I know it'd be more confusing, but I'd rather my gf do something that drastic with a sense of purpose, than as something which is just trivial and easily forgotten.

    Maybe 'purpose' isn't the best word, but you know what I mean.

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    We all pay in one way or another which means we all charge! We're all whores hehe

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    DollPoet wrote:

    We all pay in one way or another which means we all charge! We're all whores hehe

    lol Doll poet a bit controversial that one a man couldnt get away with saying the same, I look at it like this a man basically has (or had) to prove he could put the bacon on the table, its romantic to live on love but gets a bit tiring when the bread snappers come along.

    did i say bread snappers I meant beautiful bouncing bundles of joy of course

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    Dee_licious333 wrote:

    If my husband had visited one i would wonder why our relationship had got to that stage. I would begin to look at myself and think about what i could do to improve things. But i hope i would be able to discuss it with him. Of course i would be mad, upset, feel betrayed but if it was something he could give up then there would be hope for us!!

    Why do women (more so than cheated on men in my experience) always assume it's something they've done/not done? It could well be that he (or she if vice versa) is just a cheating rat.

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    sharry wrote:

    I'd be the same whether it was a working girl or just casual sex without money involved, even worse if he had feelings for her.

    In that situation I have to admit that I'd probably feel better if there were feelings. I know it'd be more confusing, but I'd rather my gf do something that drastic with a sense of purpose, than as something which is just trivial and easily forgotten.

    Maybe 'purpose' isn't the best word, but you know what I mean.

    I know what you mean and I'm not sure now which would be worse....

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    sharry wrote:

    Why do women (more so than cheated on men in my experience) always assume it's something they've done/not done? It could well be that he (or she if vice versa) is just a cheating rat.

    Sharry just as rape is little to do with sex so is the needs prostitutes satisfy...if you met one they are just as accustomed to being an agaony aunt or a shoulder to cry on

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    Sharry just as rape is little to do with sex so is the needs prostitutes satisfy...if you met one they are just as accustomed to being an agaony aunt or a shoulder to cry on

    I get what you're trying to say, but I honestly wouldn't say that to anyone who has been a victim of rape and/or sexual abuse.

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    I seriously considered enlisting the services of a prostitute when I was in my mid-twenties, long-term single and still a virgin. I had needs, and it seemed like a logical and relatively safe way of fulfilling them. I didn't have a clue, though, how to find one that I would trust (cards in 'phone boxes didn't seem a good option!) and I wasn't going to ask anyone else about it so, in those pre-Internet days, that was the end of the idea.

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    ShaftMaster wrote:

    gunther wrote:

    Sharry just as rape is little to do with sex so is the needs prostitutes satisfy...if you met one they are just as accustomed to being an agaony aunt or a shoulder to cry on

    I get what you're trying to say, but I honestly wouldn't say that to anyone who has been a victim of rape and/or sexual abuse.

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    on the contrary, people involved in rape counciling stress this point, sex is about love and enjoyment rape isnt but I think this isnt the forum to discuss.

    The point I was making is (and I am an expert here) guys seperated from their lover confuse sex with company. I spend a small fortune on my social life just so I dont feel lonely and have some female conversation to keep me sane. It isnt better than sex but my wife fully understands and knows the ladies involved. Women look after married men who respect them in the hope that a woman will do the same if their guy is in the same situation.

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