• How long could you go without watching porn?

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    himnher [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi

    I work afternoons so am alone in the house until lunchtime. At the end of last year I realised just how much porn i was watching (every day) and it was becoming quite an obsession. It is always something I do alone, I have watched it with my wife in the past but it felt awkward.

    I made a conscious decision to cut down and since the new year I have only been on porn sites a couple of times

    Do you think there is a right amount of porn you can watch and if so how much before it becomes a problem and could you live without porn?

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    Amykins [sign in to see picture]
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    I reckon i could do without it. Sometimes if i havent masturbated for a while and need a bit of a kick to do it i might. but otherwise i normally have a good imagination, especially about a fella i like, so no porno needed there when you have good imagination.

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    Miss teach&nurse [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm with amykins on this one. I defo think i could go without it. And the only time i do watch porn is when i have alot on my mind and my imagination just wont stay focused!

    But I will add, there are no problems with watching porn and you prob found that instead of watching some crap day time tv show u watched porn instead. I think you watched it more because u wanted to fill your spare time (a boredom breaker).

    The only time porn becomes a problem is when you decide u'd rather watch porn than be with your wife/ friends or even skip work!

    Don't let it play too much on your mind or question yourself over it. x

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    Years and years .. doesnt bother me not watching any. I do occasionally watch it .. generally alone but I wouldnt miss it at all!

    Do you think men are more visual then and need that visual stimulation .. im not saying all men (just in case someone jumps in to correct me lol)??

    Or perhaps once they start watching it its harder to stop??

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Forever! I can take it or leave it. I would imagine there is no right/wrong amount to watch. Everyone is different! :)

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    im with the others in that i dont " need " to watch it, but i do enjoy it occasionally. i'm quite picky with what i watch so i tend to only search for that type.

    but if you found that your consumption was unsettling or upsetting you then youve done the right thing to cut down, it's all about personal tastes and limits.

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    SexyBumBully [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm happy to go without. I do enjoy watching it but it's not something I do alot. I tend to watch it once/twice a month just to see what new videos are about from my favourite sites. I agree that theres nothing wrong with daily watching though and there is no right amout, I know a few people who watch it frequently, I think its quite common :)

    I'm with Miss teach&nurse on when it becomes a problem but like with all addictions, everybody has different criteria.

    Don't cut it out altogether though if you enjoy it!

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    ilikeketchup [sign in to see picture]
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    Good question!

    As a single red-blooded young male, not that long... it depends if I can be bothered to open my toy box or if I'm in a bit of a rush.

    I think porn only becomes an issue when you begin to watch something over and over that depicts any fantasies you may have, because when/if time comes to play out that fantasy it might not be anywhere near as good as porn makes it look!

    x

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    sanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Just until the OH says "Fancy watching some porn tonight?"

    Or until I have the house to myself, but usually only so I can txt the OH and tell her about it

    As far as I can see it, there are only 2 real dangers to watching 'too' much porn. The first is if you start to neglect, and that can either be yourself or the people around you (or both). The second is if you start to objectify the opposite (or same) sex, particularly a partner, and start 'expect' whatever you believe you're due... this is where abusive relationships can develop.

    If you've recognised an issue yourself and are doing things to rectify it then I don't think there's a problem. As with most things moderation is fine, and don't let your behaviour have a negative effect on others.

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    kinkycop [sign in to see picture]
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    I tend to use my imagination most of the time! most time its the same girl, but others its ladies that I've meet or seen many times

    I use porn, when my mind is not up to it. but as other say too much is a hazard! the GF may think you substituting porn for her? yes strange feeling, same with sex toys using them by yourself all the time is not good in a relationship, but if the missus and you played with each other safely then its healthy!

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    yummy mummy91 wrote:

    Myself and my bf don't watch porn ever!! I find most of it ott and very fake just my opoinon. But everyone is different so I don't think there a right or wrong amount if that what you like.

    you can find amateur porn that isnt `fake' its just about looking on the right websites! Or buying the right dvd's i guess.

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    hornymale [sign in to see picture]
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    i mite go weeks without watching but then sometimes watch most days, just depend on my mood, i watch fetish ( latex , pvc ) or lesbain or swingers or even bi sexual group porn, allways mature porn and try never to watch porn stars just ametuer porn,

    has find am porn so much better and you get normal people doing it,

    not some pumped up , cosmetic surgery people ( didnt like that look )

    normal people are much better

    best sites wankspider/youporn/redtube or even sometimes i just google what i fancy and see what comes up lol

    i only watch long enough for the relief lol

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    himnher [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the replies....some very interesting comments

    I think its time to try using my imagination again...when I first started masturbating porn wasn't available to me but looking back it was more enjoyable to fantasise, unless Im just remembering how good it felt to discover masturbation for the first time

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    wildjezz [sign in to see picture]
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    Ive not really watched porn lately hard to find real porn,Dont like the fake porn where people are getting paid to do it. But i do like looking at pictures and chatting to real people.

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    mrsorgasmatron [sign in to see picture]
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    At some point I was in Egypt, it was Ramadan and I stopped in a hotel room with two other girls for 3 weeks. It was hell. Straight after I moved out of the room and I went to a different hotel I masturbated several times in just one day!!! So, the answer is 3 weeks.

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    barkis [sign in to see picture]
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    mrsorgasmatron wrote:

    At some point I was in Egypt, it was Ramadan and I stopped in a hotel room with two other girls for 3 weeks.

    Well that has porn movie written all over it...

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    Having worked in countries that dont have it for me its easy to go without, it doesnt do much for me anyway.

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    LilMissFrustrated [sign in to see picture]
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    Forever!!!.

    Its just the way my mind works, but I can't get out of my head that as well as the 'performers', there is a sound man, a cameraman, a producer and a multitude of other people there!!

    Once that's in my mind, I want to laugh and being turned on goes out of the window.

    I know i'm weird but hey that's not going to come as a surprise to anyone on here.

    LMF xx

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    GoodPride [sign in to see picture]
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    Why should I watch a porn that I can't having sex while those actors are? Say no to porn.

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    Andreia [sign in to see picture]
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    Porn isn't necessary.... Just go for your partner and do something kinky to her/him. Geez.

    Why do you always have to resort to porn when you have someone you supposely find "ok" to live with as the " one"? Bah.

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