• How to teach my GF to swallow?

    weach [sign in to see picture]
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    I was wondering if you have an advice how to teach my girlfriend to swallow my cum.


    middledrawer [sign in to see picture]
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    I wouldn't push the issue- let her decide. I'm sure she'll come around to the idea (no pun intended).

    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    erm .. i didnt think it was something that has to be learnt!! sorry if i sound naive. I just swallow, like you swallow food!!

    Figure8 [sign in to see picture]
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    It's not something you can teach her.....it's something she has to want to do....I have to confess that for years I would not do it, down to a dodgy experience with an even dodgier ex partner, but for the last few years I have actually wanted to do it and ENJOY swallowing.....it is PUN INTENDED, an acquired taste!!!

    JakeH [sign in to see picture]
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    You don't teach people to do anything in bed. People aren't animals that can be trained to do your bidding.

    Instead, have a sensible, intelligent chat with them, explain why you would like her to swallow, how good it would make you feel, and what you could do in return to her. If she doesn't want to, I'm afraid there isn't much more you can do.

    pacnatman [sign in to see picture]
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    I would go further, don't even discuss it with her. If she wants to she will. If she doesn't, she doesn't. Remember it would be a 'gift' from her to you, offered completely freely and willingly. You simply don't teach, or for that matter try to persuade someone to give you a gift. At least I don't.

    Maybe, that makes things frustrating, but that's life, you can't always have what you want. Be gracious in accepting that. You will be appreciated as a better person for that.

    mybadx [sign in to see picture]
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    Its something you cant teach as others say. I do enjoy doing it but sometimes i just cant as my gag reflex kicks in and end up rushing to the toilet and others it goes down as easy as juice, and i find i have to be the one who decides if i want to swallow or not if my OH asks me to 9/10 it wont happen.

    As Figure8 said bad experiences can put people off, i rember once with an ex partner and i was going to swallow and something went wrong and it landed up coming out my nose put me off for a good while.

    ToyLovingCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    You cannot teach her, she must decide.
    But i disagree with "Don't even discuss it with her". You are an adult, talk about it like one. Avoiding the subject, hoping for the best or letting her guess you want it is childish.
    Be adult about it and tell her it would mean a lot to you if she did. Understand if she doesn't want to. And if she is open to the suggestion but cautious then ask why, see if there is anything youc an change to help her out. Maybe it's the taste? If it is avoid coffee and smoking, eat pineapple. Google it and find out.

    I spoke to my wife about it as I really wanted it and it never happened. Turns out she was open to the idea but didn't know it bothered me so much. So I laid off of the coffee so it wouldn't be too bad for her and she did it one night when going down on me and saying, "Tell me what you want me to do?" I told her and she did. because we had discussed it.

    If you can't discuss sexual things with your partner then you have some serious issues.

    rach74 [sign in to see picture]
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    as others have said its not teach, its up to her, when she doing it to you she must feel when you are about to cum so its then her decision wether she keeps her mouth there or not, to me i love it and find it a waste if not, some girls get put of by the pre cum as this is much stronger taste, and i think im lucky that my OH no matter what he eats or drinks the taste of his cum doesnt change

    Amykins [sign in to see picture]
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    yes its up to her. The guy im dating at the mo likes to recieve oral but not give it. Yes talk about it over with her, say how you would like her to get on it and go all the way, how it is a fantasy of yours and its a massive turn on if you know she swallows, thats all i can suggest really.

    Blueeyes82 [sign in to see picture]
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    If she doesn't want to swallow then you should respect her decision. If it's the taste of your cum that she can't stand, then you need to change your diet. Avoid meats, curries, stop smoking, drink pineapple juice for 24hrs before the deed is done.

    But you should never force anyone into anything

    Laveila [sign in to see picture]
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    I would say all you can do is talk to her about it, ask her maybe why she does not like it, but do not press too much on her. Whether there is past bad experience or she just does not like it. I would say that the bad experience is something you can with patience work round, if she is willing, but only scared of it repeating. if she does not like it, then you will have to accept her decision.

    Pixie_Murree [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't like the taste or texture of cum very much but after not swallowing for a whileI realized it was gone quicker swallowing than holding it in my mouth whilst I run to the bathroom!

    You can talk to her and see why she doesn't want to swallow, but at the end of the day it has to be her choice. Don't push her though x

    Gooseberry [sign in to see picture]
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    Sweetie, have you ever had a really nasty cold.

    Well swallowing cum is a bit like trying to swallow that lump of snot that is stuck in your throat.

    Sometimes I do it as spitting would just spoii the moment. But it is not my favourite thing.

    Try getting her to give you a BJ in the shower. Then she can descretely dribble without the obvious spit.

    Janny [sign in to see picture]
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    some girls like it some don't. just leave it like that

    smirnoff09 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love oral sex but hate to have a mouthful of cum tbh...I have learnt a few tricks where as I can bring him very close then stop oral and switch to hand or just hop on (for use of a better word...)

    I know my OH would love me to swallow but i have done it a few times and each time I just gag so bad it ends up like a farce.

    Mr Monster [sign in to see picture]
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    JakeH wrote:

    You don't teach people to do anything in bed. People aren't animals that can be trained to do your bidding.

    Well, you say that, but actually . . .

    fizzy [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with the others you carnt teach someone to swallow your cum if you would like her to do it you should talk about it with her!

    BigPoppa [sign in to see picture]
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    Yep chat about it. We did and though it hasn't happened yet as a result of explaining it to MrsBP she now allows me to orgasm in or close to her mouth a lot more. She also started spitting it discretely into a tissue at the bed side instead of running off to the bathroom which just recked our intimacy

    I guess what I'm saying is explain yourself and as others have said be open to trying something for her in return.

    Horny Glass Lover [sign in to see picture]
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    Talk to her and discuss, but remember men produce a fair amount and it's not always that nice to taste... due to diet etc... on top of that, gag reflexes usually kick in for most of us. Be greatful she takes you in her mouth and consider anything else a bonus lol.

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