how to ask partner to do me with strap on

i love it when my girlfriend fingers my bum, but how do i get her to do me with a strap on  ????

she likes me fingering her bum whilst she is riding me( she comes allways when i do it )  buti  would love have anal sex ????

how do i go about without starting a row or her thinking im more weird then she allready thinks lol

hi, recently someone else started a topic like this, so check this out:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-toys/450682-strap-on-sex/#p450788

Good Luck!

so what did you say ???

did you wear strap on for him, and did you both enjoy it ???

I have still had no luck yet ,re the above link from jay jay 13.

i did raise the subject after my wife had been pounding my arse with a dildo for 15minutes. she wouldn't discuss the purchase of a strapon, not even for my birthday

Well i watched some porn with the missus ,a guy was having his arse pounded with a strapon i know she liked it ,so i bought a strappy and presented her with it .If she had said no i would of sent it back to lovehoney but she just smiled and done me like a pro no probs and she loved it .Now she just whispers in my ear and says i'm going to fuck your arse.So taking a chance why don't you do the same and whisper to her youve got a suprise for you both and take it from there.Good Luck and if it don't work send it back or give it a while you never know,out of curiosty she just might just do you..lmd

Wouldn't work, believe me, thanks fo the suggestion though, glad it worked for you.

i was just very honest and told her it was a fantasy of mine, and luckly she was happy to help. :)

I tried that one too!!

If you want her to do you anally, you're just going to have confront the weirdness aspect. If she doesn't want to know, that's a shame cos it will be difficult to persuade her. But if you can explain that you find it very erortic and sexy and it's a really turn on for you; there's a good chance she'll give it a try just to please you.

If she does agree, just make sure it's not all one way. Do something really nice for her too.

good suggestion atlanta this guy is proving to be a hard case i hope this works

atlanta wrote:

If you want her to do you anally, you're just going to have confront the weirdness aspect. If she doesn't want to know, that's a shame cos it will be difficult to persuade her. But if you can explain that you find it very erortic and sexy and it's a really turn on for you; there's a good chance she'll give it a try just to please you.

If she does agree, just make sure it's not all one way. Do something really nice for her too.

thanks Atlanta, I haven't given up hope, it is going to be a long patient process. The longer I wait though the more I want it. On the other hand if she feels she is not going to enjoy it too it does somehow loose it's lustre as part of the fantasy is that she will enjoy doing it to me. ho hum

Why not start off with a butt plug, doesn't seem as extreme as a strap on.  The LH basic butt plug doesn't look too daunting and could ease her into anal play with you.  Check it out;

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053