How could he do this to me?...

glad you are moving on butters but does all seem rather quick, just be friends and see how it goes, it does sound rebound to me as last week you were missing your man and begging him back and week later you are ready to date again, im not being harsh,, just be careful as could all end in tears as at the moment your emotions are all over the place

i'm with rach, sounds like you've hit a rebound guy, i'd take a step back

its okay guys. i told him from the word go that im not looking for anything, i dont want a relationship just yet, i dont want a rebound or fuck buddy. he seemed absolutly fine with it and said he's the same, so were just talking, getting to know eachother, im not the type to rush ANYTHING aha i will admit i do still miss luke but whats happeneds happened. i can see now that i could never take him back though.

:)

butters x

its okay guys. i told him from the word go that im not looking for anything, i dont want a relationship just yet, i dont want a rebound or fuck buddy. he seemed absolutly fine with it and said he's the same, so were just talking, getting to know eachother, im not the type to rush ANYTHING aha i will admit i do still miss luke but whats happeneds happened. i can see now that i could never take him back though.

:)

butters x

A good case study on how to cope with a break up, with particular reference to don't ever believe that even though you may never get over someone you can move on and be stronger. x

There will be a guy out there who, You will mean the world too and he will mean the world to You.

Its just finding him or him finding YOU.

I have been lucky and have not had to deal with break up as I have been with my wife since she was 14 and I18

it was just ment to be.

The other guy is best forgot wait for the man that will give you the world :-)

Men are plonks sometimes i should know.

Hope you are feeling much happier. One thing that has bugged me reading this is his mums involvement in this.I'd give it time as I don't doubt he is took it easily either. As others have said just keep your distance, if you really did mean anything to him, he'll talk.

Anyway back to his mum, is it a case that she thinks he's too good for you? With the whole barging in during a private conversation show that she has no respect for him, and maybe even unable to make his own decisions. To me, that is the cause not that someone else may have taken his fancy. If she is controlling him like this then I feel very sorry for him as he will never be happy. 

It's just a shame we can only hear one side of the story. As for this potential new guy, it doesn't hurt keeping your options open. Whatever happens in the end I'm sure you'll be happy.