Hot or cold

Which sex do you find tends to be best, drunken, make-up, loving, quick etc?

Loving

loving,

spur of the moment lustful sex (with someone who actually cares about you though)

that wasn't on offer HI ,so i'll say dirty dom/sub with your oh

Tear your clothes of lustful sex eh Highly! Me too

Anythings was on offer Lick hence the etc.

 Loving, slow, passionate. Yum!

Fast and furious, animalistic has its place on the podium too.

Make up sex is an odd one for me, when we argue it is horrid! We are both hot-headed and even if he has apologised, it doesn't mean I want to suddenly jump in his arms again. But make up sex is the time when we are most responsive and open to eachother. So while I might not really like him too much, and not in the best of moods for sex, the sex is actually amazing. Strange.

Depraved The kinkier, the better (within my fairly extensive limits). With a Dom/sub dynamic. Several hour long playtimes that may or may not involve actual vaginal intercourse. Yum yum.
For me, sex is always loving because I wouldn't sleep with anyone I wasn't in love with, so it's not really something I have to specify.

 mmm furiously passionate quicky outdoors, maybe a bit rough too before getting indoors and spending the evening with the paddles and crops

Miss-Nomer wrote:

Depraved The kinkier, the better (within my fairly extensive limits). With a Dom/sub dynamic. Several hour long playtimes that may or may not involve actual vaginal intercourse. Yum yum.
For me, sex is always loving because I wouldn't sleep with anyone I wasn't in love with, so it's not really something I have to specify.

Being in love and loving sex is two different things in my opinion.

You may be in love with someone but have non-loving sex - ie. spanking/bondage, fast and furious, animalistic etc. You may love it, and love eachother while doing it, of course, but I don't catagorise that as "loving sex".

To me, loving sex is slow and passionate and tender, lots of caressing and such. Thats just the way I see it though. When someone says loving sex, that is what I think of.

Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

Being in love and loving sex is two different things in my opinion.

You may be in love with someone but have non-loving sex - ie. spanking/bondage, fast and furious, animalistic etc. You may love it, and love eachother while doing it, of course, but I don't catagorise that as "loving sex".

To me, loving sex is slow and passionate and tender, lots of caressing and such. Thats just the way I see it though. When someone says loving sex, that is what I think of.

Fair enough. I can't stand lovey dovey, touchy feeling crap most of the time, but I need love present. I need an undercurrent of tenderness and care and trust that you can't get without someone you love. It's like...if you're tied up, being whipped by your partner, both heavily in your Dom/sub space, possibly crying/bleeding, but then the topping partner leans over to gently wipe your hair out of your face and plant a kiss on your forehead...there's not much that screams loving sex to me more. I think if you love someone it's impossible to completely separate that from sex, unless something's gone very wrong...but things as personal as sex are always going to have differing opinions   so I understand your side too.

Oh yes, love definately goes hand in hand with sex (unless it is a one night stand or such). But in catagorizing the different types of sex, "loving" often comes up. Perhaps that catagory should be renamed. :-)

I used to adore bondage, but I find myself less and less bothered about it now. It's not really my mans cup of tea and when we do it, we only use the bondage equiptment once in a blue moon. Shame, but I don't miss it so much anymore.