That is an interesting point of view EskimoKisser. I have never thought of it as someone elses fantasy, except for in erotic fiction - as it can sometimes be blatently obvious that the writer has gotten a bit carried away with their own fantasy.
But then again, isn't every plot a fantasy of somebody elses. Films, TV programmes, music. A lot of everything we see and do is because of somebody elses fantasy or dream. Martin Luther King had a dream after all.
I think I am going off track a little bit, but if it weren't for other peoples fantasies and dreams, as well as our own, it would be a pretty boring and very cynical world to live in.
But if something is there in the background of your mind while you try to get sexual stimulation that this is someone elses kink or turn on and you have no idea who that person is, then I suppose it could be something that is difficult to not think of.
However, I think "first person" porn (of all genres) is far worse! Being forced in to doing what the narrator tells you to do. This is just a no, no to me, as you are taking the place as the lead character in someone elses fantasy/ideas. Is this not worse than just watching some people f***ing?
In gonzo or ameture porn, you are still watching other peoples ideas and fantasies, whether it be bound and gagged with fancy camera shots or just watching a close up of a woman bringing herself to orgasm.
Perhaps I have gotten myself confused, or perhaps I have ruined all forms of pornography for you. Sorry if I have. *cringes*