I have the best orgasms when i fantasize too.. all about the imagination..for me it does beat watching porn and i rarely use toys to orgasm.. i have had a vibe for 5 months and used it probably twice. I do like to watch porn occasionally but i dont want to lose my imagination by relying on solely porn. So i tend to masturbate/orgasm 90% of the time withouth porn. But hey, each to their own.. whatever works for you , there is no right or wrong!