anal gaping & prolapse... how, how often and is it safe?

I have just ordered this from LH: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21990

I hope it will give me a good anal prolapse. How often do you have yours, what technique do you use... and is it safe?

That is... ow! Are you sure you can take something like that?

holy cr@p, that's a mission :p

wooh thats big!

I would only go a far as 1. 1/4 inch wide! you bum will be gapping for a day or more!

If you using that, please start with smaller toys, and lots of lub with it more lub that normal sized butt plugs, I wouldn't what to see you in the A&E with that stuck up there! and empty your bowels afew hours before using it it could make mess if you don't

Good Luck on your mission!! and be SAFE 

....are you giving or taking or indeed both?

General observation:- Going for diameter with this guy doesn't automatically mean more or less prolapse, it'll also be a combination of the things you do to one another that are stretching the deeper parts of your butt and gut.  Sure, without large diameter provided by such a little teardrop, prolapse is less likely to be achievable (as seems to be your aim), but it'll be the mixture of depth and diameter in the same session that help you along.

Me? Well I made my first acquaintance with this little monster 48 hours ago, looking for a great stretch on days where depth is not a priority.  I must say ouch, but that good, this is going to be a great session, sort of ouch.  Lot of stretch over a short distance, and the little foot compared to its huge diameter will give you something to concentrate on. LLF at your place.  Tell us how you get on.

(Prolapse never been an aim or issue here in the house of LLF, you'll need to wait on more answers from some of the other happy butt-feinds to see if there's more advice experience of doing).  

Just be very careful, observe meticulous hygeine, keep everything short and filed smooth,  it is after-all a part of you that was designed for the inside...As I am sure you already know, all major stretching carries a certain risk, but being relaxed, building up gently, listening to pain and coming back to fight another day rather than rushing will all reduce any health risks to a pragmatic minimum.  Be careful and enjoy....just share the fun)

 I didn't even know what prolapsing was until now... I cannot imagine it being very safe. Very easy for ruptures and infection, and also, when you do it once it is much more likely to happen again and not really as a good thing, ie. going to the toilet, sneezing, lifting something etc.

I've never heard of anyone wanting to acheive this, let alone for pleasure.

Calm down people. I am used to taking ... big things up there. I have done at least 10 years of anal training. Well, that will be my bigest toy but if I can take a man's fist (it has a circumferance of 9-10 inch) I can certainly take this. Problem is that I do not prolapse or gape, even when I take a fist. My anal ring is very elastic and goes straight back to pre-sex position when the 'object' is taken out. I bought this toy in case I achieve gape and prolapse, to please the partner. Btw, I have been using massive toys since ages and I have never had a problem with... accidents while sneesing, etc. I suppose that it would be 'relatevely safe' if I used this toy something like once a couple of months.

Also, I must say I prefer girth rather than lenght / depth in anal preasure.

Hmm. I know you have been practicing anal for a long time, and the anus is a very elastic band of muscle. But it really does just take one time for it to snap or rupture and then an artificial sphincter may be needed for life!

The anus sphincter is supposed to be very elastic. I'm not entirely sure how they manage to acheive gaping in porn, perhaps from some sort of muscle relaxant.

Also, I think health - especially something as serious as this - comes long before your partners pleasure.

 I think if you're looking to gape, this isn't the solution as it doesnt hold the bum open except on its way in or out.  You need a toy that's more cylindrical so that base diameter is nice and big, then to rest a while with it inside, longer and longer.

 If your bum is so elastic, don't knock it, that's great, best protection of all from any probs as your 10 years show...

I love anal but this has made my eyes water...

I know a lot of the people on here seem to think prolapse = bad times, but I've recently come across a girl in porn who seems to be prolapsing on a regular basis as part of her videos.  Who knows if by doing this she is causing serious damage if any. 

My advice is just to be careful, and know your limits, but you already seem to be pretty confident as to what they are. 

Hope you enjoy the toy, I've seen toys a similar size to this in porn used to great effect and know it is phsyically possible to take!

 Calm down people indeed.

I think the concern of many is the idea of a 'good anal prolapse' rather than the size of the toy. How can there ever be anything good in an anal prolapse which, as I understand it is a medical problem that can be dificult to treat. Why would you want the lining of your anus hanging out?

Johnny Roach wrote:

I know a lot of the people on here seem to think prolapse = bad times, but I've recently come across a girl in porn who seems to be prolapsing on a regular basis as part of her videos.  Who knows if by doing this she is causing serious damage if any. 

My advice is just to be careful, and know your limits, but you already seem to be pretty confident as to what they are. 

Hope you enjoy the toy, I've seen toys a similar size to this in porn used to great effect and know it is phsyically possible to take!

Yeah, we are thinking of the same person, that garden girl or something. No, I don't like extreme situations like this. When I say gape and prolapse, I do not mean to the extreme. I am taking things easy and I am very careful anyway.

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mrsorgasmatron wrote:

Johnny Roach wrote:

I know a lot of the people on here seem to think prolapse = bad times, but I've recently come across a girl in porn who seems to be prolapsing on a regular basis as part of her videos.  Who knows if by doing this she is causing serious damage if any. 

My advice is just to be careful, and know your limits, but you already seem to be pretty confident as to what they are. 

Hope you enjoy the toy, I've seen toys a similar size to this in porn used to great effect and know it is phsyically possible to take!

Yeah, we are thinking of the same person, that garden girl or something. No, I don't like extreme situations like this. When I say gape and prolapse, I do not mean to the extreme. I am taking things easy and I am very careful anyway.

She's one of the girls I was thinking of.  She definitely takes it to the extreme! There's another girl called Roxy Raye.  I much prefer her to Gardengirl.  And the insertion I find more pleasurable than the prolapse itself.  Would you care to come onto chat and discuss it further?

Johnny Roach wrote:

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mrsorgasmatron wrote:

Johnny Roach wrote:

I know a lot of the people on here seem to think prolapse = bad times, but I've recently come across a girl in porn who seems to be prolapsing on a regular basis as part of her videos.  Who knows if by doing this she is causing serious damage if any. 

My advice is just to be careful, and know your limits, but you already seem to be pretty confident as to what they are. 

Hope you enjoy the toy, I've seen toys a similar size to this in porn used to great effect and know it is phsyically possible to take!

Yeah, we are thinking of the same person, that garden girl or something. No, I don't like extreme situations like this. When I say gape and prolapse, I do not mean to the extreme. I am taking things easy and I am very careful anyway.

She's one of the girls I was thinking of.  She definitely takes it to the extreme! There's another girl called Roxy Raye.  I much prefer her to Gardengirl.  And the insertion I find more pleasurable than the prolapse itself.  Would you care to come onto chat and discuss it further?

Yeah, I don't like garden girl. She is way too loose and it bloody shows, so the excitement is lost. I am kind of 'Elmer wife' type of person. Sorry mate, I am logging off for now; maybe another time.

 Don't know anything about the prolapse side of things (doesn't appeal to me to do or watch), but the gaping isn't so much to do with toy size as muscle control.  once things are a bit warmed up I find it's possible to cause one by assuming doggy style, but face down (so arse in the air, basically), then tensing/sucking in your abs/stomach as strongly as possible.

You might need to spread your cheeks open a little to help, but the suction efffect from er, inside should be enough., Try it a few times and see.  Works for me.  

You'll have to be aware of your PC muscle though (see wikipedia or lookup Kegel) and try and keep that relaxed otherwise you'll never manage.  If that's the case, try some PC exercises (same feeling as if you'd clench to stop the flow when peeing).

Hope that's some help.  Can't guarentee it will work for you but good luck and I hope the descriptioin at least makes a little sense!

 Word of warning. Mess up your anal sphicter and you will bitterly regret it for the rest of your life. Its a horrid thing being incontinent. I'm sure a bit of bum fun is safe but I really have concerns about the damage that something like this would do to your anal tone long term