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Has your OH ever said 'no way am I doing that'? If so what for?

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mine was trying to join mile high club. Factors were, not in a toilet, plane was crowded, Walls were thin and what if we need to get our seatbelts on because of an emergency!

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This may also make some interesting reading although an old thread - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/12698-i-would-do-anything-for-love-but-i-wont-do/

For me personally, OH is against anal and doesn't really want anything to do with it. He finds the whole thing a bit awkward and isn't really into the idea of it. ATM its just something he would not even consider doing...

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Good question in your title!

My OH rarely says point blank 'No' to anything really. He isn't that type of guy and since we have been together he has learned never to say never. But I know it is probably very unlikely to happen when I hear his tone of voice etc.

But he has completely refused my asking him to cross dress for me. He said he did it once for Rocky Horror, but that was for a laugh and all his friends did it too, and heck, it was Rocky Horror. He can't understand my thing for crossdressers, I don't think. But then I don't suppose that many people would since crossdressing seems to be very much accosiated with the gay community - stereotyping and all that.

I made him put on Lily Savage's Blankety Blank last night and he allowed it (only because there was nothing else on) and mumbled something about me coming from a very sad era. But I think perhaps it were a mistake as I started drooling over Lily's legs! (Strange to think that I grew up on Lily Savage, perhaps I thought her very hot in the way of an innoccent childs mind back in those days? Dunno)

But I noticed my man giving me looks. Was my cue to go and wash the dishes.

*Stop thinking of Lily Savages endless legs!*

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 ...anal..

'I'll do anything except anal, it just wasn't designed for that'....Said by a doctor, so unlikely to be persuaded in the near future.

I nearly fell out of bed as this was a line during a petting session before we had had any genital contact with one another at all.  Said with a breathy accent as I massaged her back made it as much of a turn on as the warning was an invite to all sorts of future fun all at the same time.  

I love women who know their mind.

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I went into a Green Monkey forest in Barbados once. A load of them jumped on me for some banana bread and she run away saying "no way I am doing that!"

That's the only thing I can think of! SG

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Got an In and Out dildo panty for me and the girlfriend, but she didn't seem to like it. Initial nerves firstly i think, will try again soon :)

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 Just about everything. My wife does not believe in anything other than no-foreplay missionary a few times a month.

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same as above !!!

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jaycloth and frizzer if it makes you feel better I used to be like that but as we mature we change and for me part of that was finding my sexdrive and a few kinks

xGGx

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My ex was completely against anal and me having a vibrator... but I got him to change his mind in the end!

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Gettin a starter basic sex toys for me and my OH got a feeling he will sai no u don't think so lol. But I can change his mind after showin what it does ;)

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I can not  think of anything...is that good or bad????

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 The Mrs is dead against using the strap on with me....cant get a reason why though!

Meh!

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He's not said no to anything so far, but I got the Monogamy board game so we'll soon find out..

My own no-no would be water sports or anything related to that. Just doesn't float my boat!

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she has said no to bdsm,  the only thing i'm allowed to do is spanking and gentle hair pulling

I'll try it once
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I have tried to get the Mrs to shave or wax her undercarrage (dont mind which) many times and I always get the answer "Never going to happen". I have even offered to do the same but still get the same answer.

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Erm, I don't think there's anything I've particularly wanted that he's said no to... Saying that though, I'm very submissive and we're in a M/s relationship, so really it's normally me being told what I will be doing :P Which suits me just fine hehe

But yeah, I'm very sexually experimental/open and luckily so is he, so anything he doesn't want to do or can't do for me, I'm free to get elsewhere as we're non-mono too..

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My ex, from behind a little finger up her bum would make her kick out like a horse. 'It's not meant to go there' was the reply when I asked for anal sex. Well it's not meant to go in your mouth either but she was ok with that. Funny though she loved having her bum held tight and her anus licked but no getting in there...

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