I don't get turned on by most of what is discussed on the forum. Sometimes the erotic fiction section is worth a read, and the thought of some toys Lh sell make me a little turned on. But mostly, the things discussed on here are things that interest me. It is educational, interesting, sometimes fascinating, sometimes funny, but it's not something that makes my libido go in to overdrive, or anything.
It actually annoys me to see people posting sexy chat on here. Fine if it's just tongue-in-cheek banter, but the serious 'add me as a friend, I want to talk dirty to you' and the 'Your so sexy, I wanna have fun with you, message me' type posts are just annoying and disrespectful to me. Also the number of 'I'm doing it right now' posts in the when did you last masturbate thread somewhat concerns me.
There are a million and a half websites out there for sex chat, cyber, erotic messaging, porn. This forum is supposed to be entirely different and educate and help and discuss about 'Sexual Happiness'. This is may be a forum, but we really are a closely knitted community here. We like sex, we like sex toys, but this forum isn't supposed to be about 'getting it on' here. It is supposed to be about making the most of, and improving your own sexual happiness in the big wide real world, whether that be with your partner, a potential partner, being single, looking to improve your sex life, love life, second life, whatever, advice on sexual health, advice on many other things. It is also a place to make friends who are on a similar wavelength to you, learning new things to improve your own life, have a chatter about things and even having a bit of a giggle on some threads.
So, if you are just here for some light reading to get your engines revving, in the same way you may look at porn, or looking for cyber sex or kinky chat, you are in the wrong place as far as I'm concerned.