Swinging websites?????????

Anyone on ere use swinging websites to find sexual encounters? If so please name might join ya ;-p

Ask Lovehoney-Hella- she knows loads of stuff and is pretty much a sex-guru! here is the link to her page

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/members/lovehoney-hella/

I'd like a little more info on this myself ^_^

Whenever me and my OH have searched the sites have mainly been seedy and/or dodgey. Disappointing really :(  

 From prersonal experience they are full of timewasters!

 fabswingers- though not much luck atm- just guys pretending to be girls

illumine wrote:

  just guys pretending to be girls

lol

I found a few nice people through swinging heaven. Being a female you do get A LOT of messages because I think guys tend to use the sites to get sex but aren't really in to it as a lifestyle (ie wouldn't be continuing if they were in a relationship and would want a monogamous relationship). I basically didn't have any adverts and took myself out of searches to reduce how much mail I got and was the one who did most of the contacting. I also found there were a large number of men who contacted me who were looking for affairs, so on my profile it says involved men must have consent from their partners. I don't like endless messages, we chat, we like each other, I would expect 4 or 5 messages to be enough before arranging to meet up. If they always busy/ don't know their scheduals they're probs timewasters. You just have to take the time to sort through the crap, be honest if someone is not what you are looking for and be as reliable as possible yourself. They do have swinging munches :D

Ask the Krankies!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/celebritynews/8965006/The-Krankies-We-used-to-be-swingers.html

The only swinging activity I'm aware of is local or in London, I'm afraid. These parties tend to be relatively niche and the knowledge is acquired and shared within certain circles. For instance I was made aware of Baths' swinging parties by a friend who attends. Coincidently, they're every weekend.

If you're looking for extra-curricular play as opposed to an exchange and play party then http://www.illicitencounters.com/ isn't a bad place to start. You'll have to start exploring the sexier sides of your local area to discover the play parties. x

Eureka naturist spa in Kent is very very good. Went with my OH a couiple of weeks ago and will be back on Friday. They have good facilities, friendly people and some sexy play rooms. Can't fault it at all.

Also Swingfree.co.uk is good. Although despite over 500 profile views in our first month, me and my OH haven't had any messages. We're trying to find a girl to join us for a 3some.

Hella, I've had a look at the illicitencounters website you suggested and it's just for people looking for affairs! Doesn't sound like sexual happiness to me!

Me and my wife just started a site. Www.intimate-network.com

We don't have many members but we are committed to try and keep it time waster free.

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illumine wrote:

 fabswingers- though not much luck atm- just guys pretending to be girls

we joined fabswingers years ago when we were first looking for a woman to join us but by that time we'd spent a whole lot of time on a lot of different sites with no luck and didn't put much effort in.

Strangely about 2 months ago we received a timewaster email from a bloke that popped up in my email, a day later (after logging on) we were contacted by a local woman who we met a week later for an AMAZING time. We've seen her a few times since and its been fantastic. I think we just got really lucky.

John1986 wrote:

Hella, I've had a look at the illicitencounters website you suggested and it's just for people looking for affairs! Doesn't sound like sexual happiness to me!

It's semantics to be honest, any extra curricular sexual activity outside of the boundaries of marriage is an affair. Swinging itself doesn't always mean both partners are involved with the sexual scenario (ie: wife swapping). Where you look really depends what kind of experience you're looking for.

A Google search for your local are might unlock some information and you can also try Twitter. Back in the day I had Swingers sites befriending me on Myspace a couple of times a month. 

I'm not really the most helpful person on the subject these days, times have changed and so has my sex life. :) I'm a good 'girl' these days ;)

Lovehoney - Hella wrote:

I'm not really the most helpful person on the subject these days, times have changed and so has my sex life. :) I'm a good 'girl' these days ;)

Well, we miss the good days when you were a bad girl....!

Lovehoney - Hella wrote:

John1986 wrote:

Hella, I've had a look at the illicitencounters website you suggested and it's just for people looking for affairs! Doesn't sound like sexual happiness to me!

It's semantics to be honest, any extra curricular sexual activity outside of the boundaries of marriage is an affair. Swinging itself doesn't always mean both partners are involved with the sexual scenario (ie: wife swapping). Where you look really depends what kind of experience you're looking for.

A Google search for your local are might unlock some information and you can also try Twitter. Back in the day I had Swingers sites befriending me on Myspace a couple of times a month. 

I'm not really the most helpful person on the subject these days, times have changed and so has my sex life. :) I'm a good 'girl' these days ;)

Ugh. Sorry, but this really hacked me off. It is so NOT semantics. Ethical non monogamy, where everyone is aware and consenting is nothing like cheating, and a marriage entered into by both parties as one which will be sexually open is perfectly fine if it is what both want - and I would not ever, ever, constitute that as an affair.

*irritated, of non-monogamy-ville*

I too am gonna say 'fabswingers.co.uk'

There are a lot of timewasters but there are real swingers there.

The other option is to go to a club in your local area.