• Would you ever have sex with a total stranger

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    SophieM [sign in to see picture]
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    Absolutely not, even though I've been single for years!

    I have trust issues even with friends so it's just not possible for me to be intimate with a stranger - apart from a cheeky harmless kiss - due to major trust issues. I can't trust for them to listen to me, not take things further than I want, and to be clean from STD's and the likes, plus I need to feel emotionally connected to someone for it to go further than kissing anyway.

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    horny husband [sign in to see picture]
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    my wife as sex with strangers,it works for us.

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    Lady Ness [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes, I happen to sleep with strangers weekly, due to my career.

    But also I do sometimes enjoy the odd casual encounter.

    You read a little about them here:

    http://nymphomaniacness.com/casual-encounters-on-trains-and-at-stations/

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    repliquant [sign in to see picture]
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    Since everything is separated in my brain, I don't have an issue with this. Also, in my experience even the least impressive night with an escort (and thus by definition a stranger) was better than the best time with any of the associateds. No hangups, no aftermath, no nothing. And if I were to use the best time I had as a benchmark, I can only wish I had known at the age of 20 what know now. Would never have agreed to have a chain hanged around my neck.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    did it a couple of times when single, but no more.

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    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    I have had 3 or 4 one night stands, but only one was full on sex, the others were "other" naughty fumblings. Every single one of them was rubbish, although the thrill of the chase was hot. That wasnt enough to make up for the dire experience though and it is for that reason I did not have many more one nighters. I prefer an emotional connection to really let myelf relax and let go.

    I have also slept with most of my long term relationship partners (4 of these, over the years.) on the very first date. Although, to be fair, I did meet 2 of them online and built up months worth of time getting close to them before "The First Meet" but yeh, I don't follow the 3 dates rule, especially when meeting a partner online, who lives hours away, knowing I wont see him for date 2 for months! I think hell no, lets get it on now! lol

    I also don't buy into the "he wont respect you in the morning if you have sex on the first date" thing. At the end of the day, if you met some random drunk guy in a pub and had dire sex, he may not remember your name in the morning, but whether he respects you or not is down to you both, sometimes people in this situation are not looking for respect and long term, just a physical thrill. However, in general, guys are just like us ladies. If he likes you for you, and you sleep together on the first date, he is not going to think badly of you, first of all, he WAS THERE too. secondly, if he does think bad of you, even considering he was willing and eager at the time, then hes probably a sexist twat who thinks its rules for one and not for another and you had a lucky escape.

    Just do what feels right and enjoy yourself safely I say!

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    LilMissFrustrated [sign in to see picture]
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    No

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    Citygirl2810 [sign in to see picture]
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    had a few one night stands in my younger years - some great and some dire. would i now? it really depends on how attractive they were and how horny i was feeling. i would like to try swinging at some point so that would include having sex with strangers :-)

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    jennyb [sign in to see picture]
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    There is a real sense of freedom having sex with someone you don't know you can be however you want and behave anyway you want knowing you never have to see them again. Have done it in the past not now though I love my hubby and he's more than enough 😊

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    Miss Pussycat [sign in to see picture]
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    In the past yes, now no way.

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    kittencub [sign in to see picture]
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    No never did when I was younger, I hated the thought of a teenager pawing at me, didn't play the field wasn't interested no confidence anyway. Today happily married.

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    xabix [sign in to see picture]
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    Just posted this on and old thread so thought I'd stick it here too lol.

    I like the idea of stranger sex and a lot of the porn I watch is centered around this, but IRL I think it's generally a bad idea. I had a lot of one night stands when I was in my teens, the excitement and the to and fro leading up to the sex is great high but I never really got much fulfillment the sex itself, it was always a bit wham bam. Also there's a lot of danger involved as you don't know anything about the other person but I guess that's part of the thrill!

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