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    hi there,

    you know that male has this build in fucking movement, that he must know, in and out, ;-)

    But when a female wear a strarp on. how does she know how to fuck?

    how does she can learn that fucking movement?

    yours,

    J.J.

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    I keep telling my lovely wife she needs to keep in practice or she might lose it 8-)=

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    Well, I guess we have a built in movement when we're on top, up and down. And we know how to thrust a dildo in and out of ourselves, probably with our hips thrusting forward to....

    So I think it's probably also a built in thing? It might take some practice to build up the rythym and maybe confidence, but once you're off, you're away!

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    hi luv

    well the question remain, what you need to do to learn the movements?

    Dirty Red Angel wrote:

    Well, I guess we have a built in movement when we're on top, up and down. And we know how to thrust a dildo in and out of ourselves, probably with our hips thrusting forward to....

    So I think it's probably also a built in thing? It might take some practice to build up the rythym and maybe confidence, but once you're off, you're away!

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    Silk_Touch wrote:

    hi luv

    well the question remain, what you need to do to learn the movements?

    Dirty Red Angel wrote:

    Well, I guess we have a built in movement when we're on top, up and down. And we know how to thrust a dildo in and out of ourselves, probably with our hips thrusting forward to....

    So I think it's probably also a built in thing? It might take some practice to build up the rythym and maybe confidence, but once you're off, you're away!

    I don't think we do 'learn' anymore than you do? I mean, it's in and out right?

    As far as I'm aware you just learn by doing and thrusting your hips back and forth.... same as you do.

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    I don't think it's anything to 'learn', unless she's never had sex before and therefore has nothing to base it on, but it's unlikely someone who has never had sex before would be wearing a strap-on anyway so it's fair to assume they know the actions required to actually fuck someone.

    Whenever I have done this, my concern has always been that as it's made of rubber or whatever you (the wearer) has no feeling as to is it meeting resistance etc, whereas when a man fucks a woman he can feel all that stuff through his penis. This is where decent communication comes in, which is the key to it all. You can advise her on what to do, slowly, a little faster etc, essentially whilst there are variants, it's an in and out movement isn't it, and that isn't had to learn....

    As DRA said, confidence is important and through decent comms you can help her with that :)

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    she had sex, but male has this dog fucking movement, that most weman dont know how to.

    maybe the I should ask, what possition are you using with a strap?

    communication is a must with or without sex toys, and with anal play for sure!

    did you manage to over the non feeling of the dildo coming in and out?

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    maybe the I should ask, what possition are you using with a strap?

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    It might also be worth looking at the following thread (if you haven't already) -

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/321957-pegging-male-pride-confidence-boosting/

    Whilst it doesn't specifically answer your question there may be some suggestions & tips that can help you along the way whilst you're waiting for more responses

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    how did you got in to the rythym ?

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    I don't think there is much of a learning curve in knowing how to thrust. I mean, anymore than there is a learning curve for a guy to bend over with his legs apart. It's just a matter of using your head about putting two and two together.

    However, there is a learning curve in making it enjoyable, which is quite different, and that's just a case of talking and listening.

    There is no magic tempo, it's just whatever works.

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    I'm a bit confused as to your question....

    Rhythym is determined by both of you, at the end of the day, on base terms, it's a cock, albeit a rubber one, going in to a hole, with an in and out motion, however fast or slow you are both happy with, in whatever position works for you both, whether that's doggy style, you on top, bent over the edge of the bed, who cares, as long as both enjoy it....

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    what strapon posstion is enjoyable for you?

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    If am honest, it's not the positions that make it enjoyable for the woman, given you can't 'feel' what you are doing, what's enjoyable is seeing the pleasure you are giving.....

    Edit: unless you had a double ender type strap on obviously, which I don't

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    so you like the popin dildo....you like the male eye balls when first start....you like his cock getting harder?

    why not buy yourself double ender?

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    I don't think this thread is about what I like.... You asked questions, we have answered them and tried to help.

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    what you like was in general to all. ;-)

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    Two possible positions really. Face to face, which is quite difficult, and doggy style.

    As we are not owners of a sling, we always do doggy style. Porn movies always show the recipient on hands and knees, but this puts the bum hole far too high for strap-on fucking.

    Here's a method: find some large cushions (or isex furniture if you have it) and arrange them so you can bend over them and support your lower body on them. You will find it more comfortable if you have a pillow for your head as well. The pillows should support the pelvis and the upper body will be somewhat lower. The recipient should then spread (his/her) thighs so that all his/her lower body weight is supported by the cushions. If necessary adjust the cushions so that the height of the anus is the same as the height of the end of the strap-on. It should then be easy for the active partner to move his/her pelvis back and forth and push the dildo in.

    You will also find that you can drop the height by spreading the recipient's legs wider. This position is also good because it automatically relaxes the tendons and muscles around the anus so that you will find that penetration is more pleasurable and satisfying.

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    ooooooooohhhhhhhhhh see who needs dirty talk when its explained like this lol

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    atlanta wrote:

    Two possible positions really. Face to face, which is quite difficult, and doggy style.

    As we are not owners of a sling, we always do doggy style. Porn movies always show the recipient on hands and knees, but this puts the bum hole far too high for strap-on fucking.

    Here's a method: find some large cushions (or isex furniture if you have it) and arrange them so you can bend over them and support your lower body on them. You will find it more comfortable if you have a pillow for your head as well. The pillows should support the pelvis and the upper body will be somewhat lower. The recipient should then spread (his/her) thighs so that all his/her lower body weight is supported by the cushions. If necessary adjust the cushions so that the height of the anus is the same as the height of the end of the strap-on. It should then be easy for the active partner to move his/her pelvis back and forth and push the dildo in.

    You will also find that you can drop the height by spreading the recipient's legs wider. This position is also good because it automatically relaxes the tendons and muscles around the anus so that you will find that penetration is more pleasurable and satisfying.

    thanks you, good on. and I'll give it a try.

    what do you all think about the dildo size, the lenght, does it metter, does it helps?

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