any suggestions?

I'd like to buy my OH something sexy for xmas, but given that she gave birth is august, she's not feeling her best at the moment. She has said a couple of weeks ago she wants to feel sexy and like a woman again. I don't want it to be thoughtfull and senitive, not in your face offenive.

I've already put the Monogamy game in my basket, but that would be more for us than for her. So any suggestions?

thanks 

Hi Robin have you thought about lingerie, something like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18642

covers the areas which can cause concern after having a baby. Is sexy without being insensitive

xGGx

 Hiya Robin

I'd go for some massage oil - there's nothing like a sensual massage to make me feel sexy, pampered & in the mood.

Monogamy's a great game, hubby & I love it - good choice!

CCW x

 I agree with lingerie, even just some sexy undies she can wear under her everyday clothes might give her a bit off a boost, knowing that she is wearing them and the only other person who knows is her partner can be a big turn on.

A nice massage oil is also great, it means you get to touch her body and sjhe can be relaxed and as long as there is no pressure for sex with the massage then it coulld have a great outcome!

 thanks all,

she has been getting massages with oil for a long time (I am waiting for my first one ) It will probably be lingerie, but I am afraid too sexy / naughty, although honeslty I really want it to be...

If you already massage, how about a massage candle? There are some really nice ones about.

And there's plenty of lingerie that manages the delicate balance of sexy and discreet. Lacy and frilly may be the most flattering, even if that's not your / her ususal favourite style.

Good luck,

MrMr

maybe she could create her own wishlist?

Hi Robin,

What about these:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20215

I don't think she would think they are "lets have sex" pyjamas, but they are still sexy in my opinion.  I have these and they are lovely to wear, just a little bit more sexy that your standard pj's but they're comfy and don't show everything off if that's not what she wants.  If you like them, check out the other pj ranges in the Seven Til Midnight range, they have heart print and cherry print too.

 Thank you for the suggestion Carousel. I like it a lot, pity the largest size is quite small. but you've given me a good idea, I'll look at nice PJs

Hey, robin

this page http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/lingerie/sexy-lingerie/sexy-nightwear/

lets you search by size, on the left. None of the Seven 'til Midnight range comes any bigger than a 14, but other brands range up to a 24, so there should be something for your lady there.

Good luck!

Mr M, Seven 'til Midnight have one of the best plus size ranges on LH

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/lingerie/sexy-plus-size-18/all/all/seven-til-midnight/all/all/all/

Ah! I was looking at nightwear specifically. I thought I remembered a Plus-Size option, but nothing popped up.

Sorry!

I've found Seven Til Midnight sizing to be generous, unlike many other brands where I find you have to buy at least one size bigger to stand a hope of it fitting.

To minimise the risk of buying her something that doesn't fit, I'd definately recommend STM range.

Hope you find what you're looking for!

If it's PJ's you're after now, though I know I shouldn't be recommending other places, shops like Debenhams and M&S often have nice ranges of PJ's that are sexy, think M&S has an 'Autograph' range that's brought some nice gift nightwear out for Christmas!

i agree with pjs or a nightie i don't feel very sexy sometimesbut when ever i put on a nightie or slip i instantly feel sexy especailly if they are satin or satin feel. m&s and bhs do some lovley stuff like carousel said i also like debenhams.

 I went for this in the end

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20762

and Glee cheerleader PJ outfit and the blue ray season 1-3 box set of True blood

Hi Robin,

Let us know if she liked them. The babydoll looks really nice