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    Fluffbags wrote:

    My view on this is that people often view sexuality in black and white. (Am I straight or gay) whereas I think sexuality is a spectrum...a sliding scale and that we all sit somewhere in the shades of grey. Some of us closer to one end, some of us closer to the other end, some of us in the middle and fewer still are the "absolutes"

    I imagine you would think of it differently if you imagined your sexual tastes like your food tastes...Say you HATE cheese but one day you discover you really liked this pie someone made for you...then you find out there was some cheese in it..You don't really question your like for cheese...you still know you don't enjoy cheese. You can now say I don't like cheese and wouldn't eat it on it's own...but I do like pie with cheese in it.

    Same with sexuality. It is very diverse really. I think the main confusion for people comes from labels. Labels are so absolute that most of us try them on and realise they don't quite fit us, so then we think...oh., well that didn't fit but that was the label I associate with most and there is only one other label left...but that doesn't fit either...so confused!

    Hope this makes sense. Bin the labels and enjoy your sexual expression the way you want to enjoy it. You will probably find one day that you enjoy it for reasons that have zero bearing on your sexuality and more to do with your desires.

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