• Stright guy. Gay porn

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    Cap54 [sign in to see picture]
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    Can't understand this, as a straight guy why am I suddenly turned on by gay porn? Anyone else experienced this?

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    healerwhore [sign in to see picture]
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    Me neither. My mate at work is too. Very strange. To be fair though, who cares? Whatever floats your boat

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    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    I figure it's that you can associate with both sides of the story - I always end up putting myself inside the head of the characters - for me the more women in a porno the better because I can imagine the feeling of what's happening to them.

    2 men in a scene = 2 men you can imagine experiencing the situation they're in = twice as good as 1 man in a scene perhaps?

    To be honest it doesn't particularly matter why you enjoy it though - just enjoy it

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    Ginger Ninja Minge [sign in to see picture]
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    I just steer the hell away from gay porn. I didn't know straight people could get turned on by gay porn. seems strange, but I guess it doesn't matter one bit as long as you enjoy it.

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    niftyb [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a straight woman, yet I enjoy gay male porn for the lack of overacting actress screaming incessantly and making fake orgasm noises constantly. Gay porn is quite often quieter and more... Real and passionate.

    ....maybe?
    Either way, Im going to echo what's already been said and just go with ENJOY IT :D

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    Dee_licious333 [sign in to see picture]
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    I am a straight woman but i dont really get turned on by gay (female or male) porn. I think i would prefer to watch two women getting it on than two men. I have tried to watch a bit of male gay porn just to see if it would turn me on but it didnt. If something turns you on, go with it!! :-)

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    Incendiaire [sign in to see picture]
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    Maybe it's an issue of power play, and seeing one man dominate another is even more arousing for you than seeing a man dominate a woman?

    There's also the possibility that you have latent bisexual tendencies to some extent.

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    BashfulBabe [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm with niftyb, gay porn tends to be much better in the sense of acting/direction/story/whatever. There's too much straight porn that's just some chick done up like a drag queen honking like a goose on crack, and some guy with horrific facial hair droning lines like "yeah baby, take it, you like that" as if he really can't wait to get fnished so he can fuck off and watch the match. There's some good straight porn, but there's way more bad stuff, so you really have to put effort in if you want to find anything decent non-gay; the gay stuff doesn't seem to have quite such a high percentage of bad.

    Possibly it's just the aspect of fantasy. It's good to be able to fantasise about things you don't do, or possibly even would never do! Sure, you might fantasise about making gentle love to your wife in the missionary position with the lights off, but now and then you'd want to go look at something you never get to do, just for the stimulation of the change-ness of it. If you're not gay, and not even tempted to be gay, then the idea of being involved in gay sex - even just as a voyeur - could be a turn on just because it's a sexual situation you'd never find yourself experiencing in real life.

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    Miss teach&nurse [sign in to see picture]
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    Im with the majority on this..... Just because u watch gay porn doesnt mean ur in any way shape or form gay!

    I personally only really ever watch lesbian porn (also amateur) for many reasons the number 1 reason is because the woman/women aren't being treated like rag dolls. Something totally unsexy and turn offish about a woman being dragged around a room by a man/men in what i can only describe as being abused (the woman goes from looking neat and tidy to dishevelled hair and make up everywhere). Also the sounds that tend to come from straight porn our ridiculous

    'just to let all men know we really don't sound like banshee's in the bedroom'!

    Cap54 - don't dwell on the fact its gay porn - what's important is that it's a turn on for u!

    x x x

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    HellsBells72 [sign in to see picture]
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    Ginger Ninja Minge wrote:

    I just steer the hell away from gay porn. I didn't know straight people could get turned on by gay porn. seems strange, but I guess it doesn't matter one bit as long as you enjoy it.

    I'm a straight girl - but I love watching girl on girl action - it doesn't make me a lesbian - i just like watching girls get off.

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    Kinkyfish [sign in to see picture]
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    BashfulBabe wrote:

    I'm with niftyb, gay porn tends to be much better in the sense of acting/direction/story/whatever. There's too much straight porn that's just some chick done up like a drag queen honking like a goose on crack, and some guy with horrific facial hair droning lines like "yeah baby, take it, you like that" as if he really can't wait to get fnished so he can fuck off and watch the match. There's some good straight porn, but there's way more bad stuff, so you really have to put effort in if you want to find anything decent non-gay; the gay stuff doesn't seem to have quite such a high percentage of bad.

    Possibly it's just the aspect of fantasy. It's good to be able to fantasise about things you don't do, or possibly even would never do! Sure, you might fantasise about making gentle love to your wife in the missionary position with the lights off, but now and then you'd want to go look at something you never get to do, just for the stimulation of the change-ness of it. If you're not gay, and not even tempted to be gay, then the idea of being involved in gay sex - even just as a voyeur - could be a turn on just because it's a sexual situation you'd never find yourself experiencing in real life.

    OK Hold on back this up acting/direction/story!!!!!! its porn, it doent need anything LOL.

    but seriously, if you like it then go with it, if you dont then dont watch it, dont beat yourself up about the fact you like it.

    its all good for diffrent people, if we were all the same te world would be a pretty dull place

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    I only really watch gay or lesbian porn. Couples don't really do it for me.

    There's nothing wrong in it, just don't worry and enjoy it!

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    Cap54 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the replies guys, your all awesome...

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    Pixieking [sign in to see picture]
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    On the other side of the coin. I'm a completely gay guy and I watch a lot of straight and female only porn.

    I've given up working out what I am. It's just a case of enjoying what you enjoy and not worrying about what it might "mean." Unless you're looking for porn where they take hammers to hamsters. Then you have to worry.

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    I can totally understand. I have at times watched Bi-sexual porn (where they switch) but im totally straight. For me it was just a phase, and I havent watched it for many years.

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    niftyb [sign in to see picture]
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    Kinkyfish... Acting/directing not needed?? You obviously have not seen the epic "top guns XXX" trailer ... Go watch that and come back and tell me that porn doesn't need acting. I dare ya!! :P

    "he's on our six bandit, do some of that pilot sh*t!"

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    Ginger Ninja Minge [sign in to see picture]
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    Since reading about women 'honking like a goose on crack', I have spotted that women do indeed go 'honking like a goose on crack'. It actually amuses me now.

    I do find it kinda sad how they feel the need to fake pleasure and talk dirty just for the sake of it...

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    Hah! So glad that my phrasing has improved bad porn for all! And steal away, hornster.

    Was actually chatting with the fella about it, and the biggest thing we can agree on is that it's sooo much better when the people involved actually seem to be enjoying it, rather than just hamming it up while they may as well be looking at their watch and sighing. The majority of mainstream straight porn just feels that staged, and the 'actors' don't make any effort to (or are just too bad to be able to) engage the audience. And that doesn't mean filling the air with as much whooping and clichéd chatter as humanly possible; I've seen fifteen minutes of all silence except breathing and the odd inaudible whisper, and that's 100 times sexier than this "ooh yeah give it to me that's it yeah I love that when do I get paid?".

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    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    True BashfulBabe

    Hubby & I both prefer porn where the woman's neck & chest turn red from arousal & you can tell she doesn't care one way or the other about being filmed.

    When you have women barking a running commentary and licking her lips "seductively" at the camera all the time it's really off-putting. I prefer it when they appear to get caught up in what they're doing, and their eyes focus on each other - much sexier

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    FireMonkey [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a straight married man, and I have enjoyed watching gay porn for years. I have not informed my wife of this, I guess because of the 'stigma' around it. I would love to think she'll be fine with it, one day I'll tell her.
    Anyway, I have difficulty sometimes with the idea of watching gay men, but it really turns me on. Im not interested in having sex with men, just enjoy fantasising about it.
    Before watching gay porn I enjoyed the fantasy of it, thinking of another man touching me etc. I looked the whole idea up on internet sites and read several articles on the subject. They mostly stated that because some of us masturbate often at a young age, the only 'sexual experience' we have at that age is our own genitals. So we are used to being turned on by a penis, so the idea of another penis turns us on, completely naturally.
    So don't be concerned, I was, and your message has helped me to be more comfortable. So Thank you for posting and I hope you are now more comfortable also. Take care.

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